Hello,
I just wanted to get a little feedback regarding something that is going on in my life right now. Let me know what you think.
I'm interested in this guy I work with. Now, don't panic, it's not what you think. We have known each other for almost 5 years. Through many of the changes that have ocurred at this company, I have been his boss, he has been my boss, and we are now in two separate departments. I have changed a lot physically since we first met. I have lost almost 100 lbs in the past 15 months and have matured a lot during that time. For a long time, I could not stand this guy. I thought he was an arrogant jerk, and I doubt he thought very highly of me.
We have not had a lot of contact with each other over the past year, since we are in separate departments. But recently, we have been doing a lot of running into each other. And I promise, some of it is not intentional. During this time, we have gotten to know a little about each other, and he has even been helping me with going back to school in January.
Something tipped me off a couple of months ago that makes me think he might be interested in me. I had to call his department to ask for a favor (I needed him to do something for me regarding a customer). He wanted to know what he would get out of the deal. When I asked him what he wanted, he stated, "dinner." There was quite a pause after this request because I was trying to figure out just what he was asking (I didn't want to jump to conclusions). I kinda blew it off and he did, too. So it hasn't been brought up again. But he has mentioned that one of his newer employees thought that I was his girlfriend. I'm not sure if he gets teased about it or if it was just a misunderstanding (yes, I do have to go out to his department on occasion to speak with him.)
At the advise of a mutual co-worker (who knows I am interested in someone, but does not know who), I have gotten a Hallmark card that simply says thank you (more or less for being a friend.) I will write in the card that I appreciate his help in answering my questions about going back to school in January. The co-worker states that with this card, I will be putting the ball in his court. If he's interested, then he will react to the card. If he'a not, then I have my answer and can move on.
What do you think?
By the way, I'm 25, single, no kids, never married. He's 29, single, 1 child, never married. It is not against the rules to date someone in a different department at our job.