Re-develop yourself (take what she said about you in wisdom), apply what you need, and forsake what isn't true. Live the new you before her (and watch what happens).
Good Luck,
MOP
Let Go! I know that it is hard but you must "let go". Work on improving yourself. Use this situation as a stepping stone for your next relationship.
If you need anymore advice (hit me up on yahoo messenger).
Good Luck!!
MOP