Dice

Wow... That is one hell of a lie... I like the thought of just telling the truth... Just tell your boyfriend that it was a lie and why you told that lie... You made everything up because you felt like you two were growing apart, right? Well, if he really wants to stay together with you, he'll forgive you. It's important to know that what's done is done and that can't be altered, it's what you do now to correct the events in the past. If you tell your boyfriend and your parents the situation you were in and why you did what you did and that you are truly sorry and didn't mean for things t o get blown so out of proportion, I'm sure they'll forgive you. They may not like it, but certainly they'll forgive you. And if it were me, I'd make a solemn pact between the three of you NOT to tell the police, because if they find out it was a lie, then it'll completely ruin your going to an Ivy League school. This is just my advice, but you don't have to listen to me.

I need a little help with a girl's reply too. I asked this girl out just yesterday for a date tonight. I think that was a mistake, considering it was such short notice, but here's what happened anyway. I have a job and a boss who likes to change the schedule around alot, so, when I copy the schedule, I can't be exactly sure if things would stay the way they were written. When I first copied the schedule Monday, my weekend was free, so I decided I'd ask this girl out for a date on Saturday, but I figured I might as well wait a day or so, just in case my boss did change the schedule, which he did. When I came in to work Wednesday, I found the schedule had indeed changed and I had to work all weekend, but I was free Friday, so I figured, "What the hell, let's ask her out for Friday." So yesterday morning, I asked her if she wanted to go grab a bite to eat and maybe catch a movie, and to my surprise, she said yes, so I was real excited, but then she said, "But I can't..." When I asked her why, she said, "Well, I'm on the A basketball team, and the B team came to watch our game yesterday, and the B team has a game tomorrow, so our coach wants us to show up for their game to support them. I really would, but I just can't." Yes, I was a little disappointed, but at least she showed some interest, right? My problem is this: I've already asked her out once, and she said she would if she could, but she couldn't, so I want to know when an appropriate time would be for me to ask her out again? We just got out for a week-long Thanksgiving break, so I won't see her until next Monday, and I don't even have her phone number, so I can't exactly ask her out for a date this week. I just kinda want a few opinions as to what I should do and when.

I'm 16 as well and have the same problem. I really like this girl at school, and she and I are pretty good friends. We talk about alot of the same stuff and can strike up a converstation easily, but I'm doubting. Sometimes well have an awkward silence in the middle of a converstation, at which time we just stare at each other until one of us says something. I don't know if she likes me, and I can't even tell if she's flirting or not. I'm thinking about asker her on a date, but I've never asked any girl on a date before in my entire life, nor has any girl asked me out. To tell you the truth, I've never had any kind of relationship with any girl, ever. A little assistance would be appreciated.