haylie23

My skin is kind of weird. I have really light skin, which makes my uneven skin tone very noticeable sometimes. I was wondering if anyone knew of make up or something that could help? I don't tan, which I know could help, but I really don't like that look. I'm also currently using a foundation which does help. What do you use? Also, any tips on how to apply it to the face to make it look more natural?

Hey, I haven't actually been here before (I'm under my sister's name), but my sister said this was a good site for advice. I have a job interview at a local Target soon. I'm trying to get a job as a cashier. I really don't know what to expect because this is my first interview. Can anyone give me any advice or tips? What kind of things will they ask me? Thanks! ~Carlie

Thanks to everyone who responded. I didn't expect to get so many replies! I think some of you have it wrong, so I should explain.. He was willing to pay for my education. I didn't like force him to, or pout about it not being able to go to college. I was actually going to spend a couple years just working and then go to school later when I had enough money. That was my original plan from the beginning, before I even dated him. However, he has always been the type to push me towards the things I want in life. Going to college was something I really wanted. I never once asked him for money. I'm very thankful to him for all he has done and he knows it. I also don't feel like I need to be with him because he paid for my education. I've bought a lot of things for him as well that he really wanted, and even though he could have afforded it, I wanted to buy it. I don't want him paying me back for anything. He did not pay for other living expenses. I managed to pay for a lot of things. I baby sat like every weekend and did jobs like that for money. I pay half the rent and I saved up to buy myself a car, which my boyfriend wanted to buy, but I didnt' want him to. I'm definantly not spoiled or something. Of course like any couple, we both spoil each other at times, but I don't demand money from him ever. In fact I don't like him paying for things. Of course I love this guy. He's my best friend. He's such a nice guy too. However, I don't feel like I'm in love with him. People are asking why I would want to lose someone like him. The answer is, if I don't. If I had a choice, he would be the one I would be with forever, but its like I can't tell my heart to be in love with him. I want to be with someone I'm truly in love with forever, not just someone I love. I want to feel that. I'm seriously just confused. I'm confused about my feelings and what I should do. I just regret moving in with him so fast. Seriously, looking back, I don't know what made us want to. It just seemed like a good thing to do. I fear breaking up with him, just to realize that this is just a phase or something and I really am in love with him. To all of you who have found "the one" and know you are in love, do you ever question your feelings? Do you ever wonder if there is a better feeling out there? Do you worry that you are making a mistake? Is it normal for me to be feeling this way?

Hi, my name is Haylie. I have been living with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now. We moved to quickly, we decided to move in together after about 3 months of being together. I was only 20 and he was 23. That was a wrong decision from the start. I had strong feelings for him, but I questioned if it was love. The reason I decided to move in with him was because my family and friends kept saying how perfect we were and that they thought he was the one. After hearing it so much, I started to believe it. Not that I didn't want to, but I was confused. Other things, like sex didn't come as quickly as that. We were both virgins. I always knew that I would wait until I felt completely ready. I think we waited about a year before having sex. Everything was perfect for awhile. My feelings just got stronger and stronger everyday. I was no longer confused about my feelings. I knew he was the one. After about a year, I was still in school and he had a good paying job (still has it..) and since I was so focused on school, I didn't have time for a job. He basically paid for my education, which I was thankful for because I couldn't have done it otherwise. Anyways, things were great for the first 3 years of the relationship. He proposed to me a couple weeks after our 3 year anniversary. I wasn't expecting it and I really wish he hadn't. We never even talked about marriage before this. It just never came up. I didn't know what to say to him. After he proposed, the reality started kicking in. I realized that I honestly never thought about spending the rest of my life with him and after thinking about it, I realized I didn't want to. He didn't seem too hurt that I said no. I'm sure he was though. I started questioning my feelings for him again. Of course to him everything is still perfect. I have found out from friends that he is planning on proposing to me again on our 4 year anniversary and he really thinks I'll say yes this time. I love this guy, but I'm not in love with him anymore. I'm not sure that I was ever in true love with him. I just don't know what to do. We have been together for almost 4 years and I was so young. I feel like I missed out on meeting new people. Obviously I'm lucky to have experienced this, but I think its time for it to end. He has noticed something has been wrong with me. I can't pretend all day. He always asks me whats wrong, and I'll say, "Do you think this is the way its supposed to be?" and he will just say that everything is perfect. I just don't know how to bring it up, or what to say. We share so much together and it would just create big problems. I guess I'm just asking for advice. Do I stay with this guy even though I'm not in love with him anymore, or do I add more stress to our lives by ending it. I'm just so confused.

It is normal. You can't help who you fall for. Except you need to know whats best for you. Its not good for you to be with someone who abuses you. You need to take care of yourself and not be with someone who is disrespectful. It will ruin you.