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  1. well the title says it all, to me after getting over my first serious relationship its not a matter of NC or talking everyone is different, You do what you need to do..I needed to know evertthing and found out.

     

    So people out there it takes time a lot of time but it does happen no miracle NC will work you will heal when you are ready to heal.

  2. no no i can get out of it, its just i never have felt like this before. She came passed today and i started really noticing her flaws, whilst before i didn't we had been going out for 3 years so i got a chance to see them but didn't.

     

    When you are emotionally hurt it can affect the physical side of things.

    I will keep at it for a while and then look at it again.

  3. dude just relax and enjoy, i think she is really stoked at having a guy like you and doesn;t want to mess it up, tell her its awesome because she does it and only her.

     

    You can't stop thinking about it but don't expect it, she might suggest it then.

     

    Hope it helps

     

    Out of interest how old are you guys??

  4. Hi guys...my Ex-Girlfriend broke up a little over four months ago, tried to get her back four about 3 months, it was over i finally accepted it and have no spoken for a while about 5 weeks.

     

    During this time i have been feeling pretty good, accepted the situation and looking to the future.

     

    However the last few days have been really hard it's like we just broke up in my mind and i can shake the feeling.

     

    Could it be just the New Year and spending it alone well sort off... i did hook up with a chick and i feel guilty for some reason.

     

    Has this happened to anyone else??

  5. well technically she didn't cheat, but i would run away your situation is pretty much the same as mine.

     

    I would forgive her but i wouldn't jump straight back into the relationship, be friends for a while i mean like 6 months then decide, i know it sounds stupid but i would want to make sure its just not another whim her wanting to get back together. People tend to tell white lies when this happens, perhaps she fancied this guy and he only wanted the chase got the goal and now she runs back to you.

     

    Sorry to sound harsh dude, believe me i mean it's been four months and it Austrlia is 2.00am and i am still up.. So i would want to make sure

  6. in reply to sisterlynch we are still very attracted to each other, but at times i feel like i am not sexually attracted to her i don't know why and i think she feels the same.

     

    My question is when someone mentally upsets you can it affect the physical side??

  7. i mean i know she is hot...but i don't think we are connecting at the moment at least not like we used to and i sorta think she feels the same way....

     

    I know when getting back together it takes time....How long do you guys suggest i should give it..ITs been about a week.

  8. I am a guy and while i know i don't want to be with my Ex-Girlfriend we are still going out.

     

    I just wanted to ask whether its possible to feel sexually attracted to someone and then not...Its all physical so when she mentally gets me upset can it really turn off sexual desire and vice versa.

     

    I would like to hear from guys and girls

  9. stress leads to irregular periods but like others said your age its common for irregular periods...

     

    i dont know how old you are BUT im sorry but im going to be very BOLD because i feel very strongly about this...:

     

    "If you want to play like an adult, accept the responsibilities that come with being an adult!"

     

    im so sick of young girls bugging out that they may be pregnant or something. there's so much you dont know about sex, pregnancy & disease. stop having sex & wait til youre older!! when you can handle what issues that may come from having sex!

     

    -DG724

     

    i wouldn't say just young girls i mean where is the guys responsibility..

  10. i wouldn't play games..ie not answering, ignoring...call her back ask what she wanted...be prepared for the standard "just to see how you are"...I don't want to give you wrong impression yadda yadda...Take it how it comes and try to be casual..

     

    If you decide to call back.

  11. dude i can see your point and you should wait...not for marriage but at least till your in a long term relationship and are in love with the person and she is love with you.

     

    Your first time like it or not is the one your always going to remember and you want to look back and smile everytime you think about it...So don't hold out in a relationship just let nature take its course and if it happens it happens.....

     

     

    On the other stuff about girls having sex b4 her history and life experience is what makes her the person she is today..if you like that person well then that experience has made her what she is so you shouldn't judge on things like that....but i can see what your are talking about with that chick 3 somes and all...i would stay clear personally myself.

  12. Dude i was exactly the same as you...As stated above make the C/Card the last offering but apart from that don't bother...even to find out whats happening..After a few days of not speaking you will see that its over "for the moment" (i Never close the door on anything), She will realise that you are an awesome guy and regret this stuff...Just give her time..

     

    And don;t call and you must ignore her calls.

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