spacemarine2004

Well, my ex and I was supposed to work things out. We went out a few times and I thought that things were going great but suddenly she stopped talking to me. She doesnt answer my phone calls and no word from her. This has been going on for more than a week now and I have stopped trying to reach her for 2 days now. Whats up with her??? Any comments opinions are very welcome so thta I can atleast try to understand whats going on.... Thanks

Where do you find the strength to say such beautiful words, such beautiful thoughts? You made me realize that breaking up is not about endings, but rather beginnings. I hope that I too can say the same things, to love and not to hate.

I finally got a chance to speak to my ex and tried my best to convince her that we can still work things out, but she really did not want to take me back. According to her, she couldnt remember the moments that we had and all her feelings for me just faded.... Ok, we got that straight and I decided to just leave her be, maybe she can find out on her own if she really wants to get back with me. Well It was a week without any contact (phone and email) when I get a phone call from her late evening. She did not sound too well and she sounded like she was crying, I asked her how she was and asked her why she called me up. She said that she was just checking on me to see how I was and then all of a sudden all the memories that I was trying to forget just came flooding in.... Now I am a complete mess and I thought I was already moving forward with my life but now I am unsure again....

My ex and I were together for more than 5 years, during this time plans were already made for the eventuality that we would be spending the rest of our lives together. I proposed marriage last august but she refused, we also found ourselves having difficulty communicating. As early as June she was already seeing someone else and yet we did not break up then, we broke up in september. It was not a proper breakup, we never had a chance to speak about it, everytime that I try to confront her about it she would only say that she feels guilty for what she did and she cannot face me. I was hoping that we can still get back together as I love her. The problem again is that she refuses to speak to me and I alo fear that because of her infidelity, she might be pregnant.... How can I confront her just to get some closure....