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OK well i dont really dont know how to put this. Well whatever here it goes ok i asked out the girl that i like right and well we went out for a week and well then homecomeing came along i went with her to homecomeing were she broke up with me say that she wasnt ready for a relationship i mean it sucked cause i really really like this person but i just dealt with it i think the reason was also cause she saw her ex b/f there and well she went out wiht him for like 9 months and i know she still really loves her ex despite the way he acts now and the way he acted with her. Well time has went on and its weird she says she doesnt know when she will be ready for a relationship she told me that it could take up to a year or two and i mean i like enough that i am actually willing to wait that long cause i like her so much i just want to be with her. But u think that, that is to long to wait? Well anyways as i go on yea she is depressed right now because none of her friends talk to her anymore cause of different reason i mean they called her a s!ut when she went out with me and i tell her that she has to realize that if they do that and call her that then there not real friends. She seems really streessed out and for some reason she is acting differently now she seems mad at me often but says she isnt, and i dont get it cause im just trying to make things better for her . I mean she knows i love i know she does but i just dont know what to do in the situation seh says she doesnt know what she wants. And to tell u the triutht even though she denys it, it seems like im the cause for most of these problems but then agian i dont know. I talk to her every day at school at night and at night it just so happened that me and her cry i dont really know why i guess im scared of loosing her or not being with her and just of everything thats going on and well for her i think she just crys about everything thats going on. one thing im not going to do though is ask her out this time all leave it to her cause really shes the only one that will know when she is ready to have a relationship so im thinking it would be better if she just did it when she thought the time was right for her. Because i dont want to take the risk of asking her and then she ends up going out with me agian and she breaks up with me agian cause shes not ready. i wish i knew though why she seems to be acting differently with me now cause i dont know its weird but im cool with it and another thing is it seems like she doesnt want to ever tell me whats wrong with her i mean i just want to help her but lately her ansers for everything have usually been her saying "nothing" when i can clearly tell that she just doesnt want to tell me but i dont know this his led me to be very confused. So tell me what do u all think about this situation what do u think i should do what do u think she should do? And well hopefully things welll end up good in the end.

thats just it i told i didnt say that and she was like yeah ur a good liar and she knows how i feel about her seriosly this may sound corny but rightt now she means the world to me. and well yeah i am going to apologize to her and everyhting thank u shroudedsorrow24 and san123 i just hope she will forgive me

ok well see this friend of mine told that girl that i said i thought she was just being a baby and that i was tired of hercrap and well now that girl is mad at me im not going to talk to that friend mine anymore as it is. But like i said i really really like that girl a lot and i dont want thing to mess up even thoogh i know i most likely wont be able to go out with her or whatever but i dont want to like ruin my chacnes wiht her even though i guess there already ruined i would just like some advice on how to fix things with her.

heres a question what should u do if a friend of urs tells the one u love something. That in turn most likely ruins thing between u and the person u love. Cause this just happened to me and i was really starting to like this person more than i ever have so far i was doing my best to try and make her like me and i dont know and maybe like want to go out with me and now things are just all messed up now i dont know what to do. plz help me out on what to do cause there is just no way i can let things go wrong with me and her even though things pretty much are all ready going wrong. i love her to much to let things go anymore wrong than they already are so plz help me out on what to do. on how can i fix things with her

damn i was hoping that no contact wouldnt be the only solution but o well cause i dont want to stop talking to her but i mean i guess it might be for the best suxs but i guess if its the only way man it suxs when u like someone enough that u dont want to stop talking to them but i guess im just going to have to deal with it right well thanks for ur help

ok well check this out over this summer i started to talk to this girl and well we both fell for eachother very quickly. I would always ask her if i had a chance with her and she would always say i did. So she actually had me believing her.The thing is it wasnt just a summer crush i really started to like this girl and i mean a lot well i still do actually. Well she eventually sent me like 2 e-mails saying that it wouldnt work between us cause she would be uncomfortable. Then like later her cousin had called me saying that my prayers were answered and all this stuff saying that i could actually have a chance with her. Since apperently her ex that shes all like still in love with told her he didnt want to talk to her anymore and stuff like that. So i was like really you know feeling good that i was going to get a chance. Then like her ex starts talking to her agian and she starts to like, like him more and stuff. Well like im pretty sure there like going to end up going out with eachother agian and well thats ok with me like really all i care about is her being happy and i know how much she loves this guy she will preactically do anything for him and well thats fine, but see the problem is i just cant get over her its just to hard for me ive actually tried to before and i just cant do it. Its like seriosly she is all i think about i mean we pretty much talk still everyday. I mean now that school has started we talk less then we use to i mean we iuse to talk till like 4 or 5 am everyday now its just till like 11 and stuff and ilike i know she use to like me like the way i like her and well now im pretty sure she doesnt anymore . But i just need some advice on how to get over her cause honestly i just cant do it shes like the first person i think of when i wake up and like the last person i think of when i go to bed and i dont know i just really love this girl but i know that she really loves her ex bf and u just cant take that from her. So i would just like some advice on how i can get over her i mean i dont want to get over her but i just feel like if i dont get over her i will just get in between her and her ex relationshiip and i dont want to do that so if anyone has any advice on how to get over someone or at leat something wtrite me back thanks

wow dude u know what thats a pretty sad story dude but ur ok and stuff hmmm it makes me wonder so if ur saying if u love someone and if they love u as much then they would be with us now well hmm that somthing i have actually been wanting to know well thanks for telling the story through your post

wow (justagirl) thats pretty interesting u know come to think of it i have a friend that goes through the same thing only the is the giver and the guy is the taker they argue sometimes and she does lots of things for this guy but it seem this guy doesnt realize that he has someone great and i think he should treat her better for all she does for him but i mean there still doing ok there still friends and stuff or there going out agian or something im not really sure i think there going out agian at least but the point is if u really like the person i guess love just has that effect on u that makes some people do all they can for the other person just to stay with them or at least through other peoples experiances thats what it seem like

wow alybernice thats suprising and welll yeah hopefully i do but as of right now it dosent it look like i will but its ok cause as long as she is happy its kewl with me.

jopo hey dude trust me man i know how u feel dude and well i would try to give u advice but i cant as it is i have the same situation as u and the fact is im looking for help on it to but just letting u know man i know what ur going through