Hi all,
Just saw this site accidentally and couldn't stop reading the posted messages. So decided why not write myself? Actually, I thought I needed some kind of advice, even if my message may sound too ridiculous to some of you.
Anyway, here's the story... I met a guy yesterday. I was chatting with him on the Internet and we decided to meet. He said he was French, but then when i met him personally, he told me his father was from Tunisia. I've only met him once but I did kind of liked him. So we're bound to meet tomorrow again. Anyway, I've told my mum about him and she's got just hysterical. She's kind of obsessed with Moslem people as she says their religion is just way too different. Okay, you may laugh but she's already thinking he might want to kidnap my future children!! She's obviously over-reacting. But it hurt me a lot to see her feeling so miserable about it, crying and so on. So I even considered phoning him and telling him not to meet him again. My family won't aprove such a relationship, that's for sure (in case there's ever ANY relationship whatsoever, that is to say). But I hardly know him so far, so it wouldn't be hard saying goodbye to him now. I won't do that if time goes on and i get to really fancy him though. What I don't know is whether this is just a racist problem or there's also a lot of truth lying underneath. I mean, a lot of people who married Moslems from say, Morocco, have had a hard time when they separated. But this doesn't sound like a reasonable thought not to try and start something with him, does it?. Okay, thank you for reading this. Hopefully you won't think I'm just too dumb... And sorry about my English in case there are many mistakes, it's just not my mother tongue!