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Nevermind about him... it's all over now. I followed most people's advice and didn't give him what he wanted. So that's the reason (I believe) why he tried to cheat on me. Fortunately, I was able to find out so I broke up with him just after 2 weeks dating. I'm pretty okay though as I've jut realised he wasn't worth it.

Thank you all for your replies. I really appreciate them. It's great that I can share this with someone and get others' points of view. I'm definitely going to find the courage to talk about all this stuff with him. I haven't done that yet in a very detailed way but I guess there's no other way. I find it a bit hard because I'm pretty shy and also because there's not so much confidence between us yet, not to mention the language problem! I don't want to give up on him because I want to give him a chance first before making sure he is or isn't the one meant for me. But you all were right in what you said... so it was a good point that I can't have sex just so that he doesn't let go of me. Anyway, thanks again.

Hi! I posted a message a couple of days ago. Anyway, I met this guy last Saturday that I really like. We've met 4 times ever since and I'm beginning to have a MAJOR crush on him. The problem is he gets too sexual and I don't feel comfortable about that. It's partly my fault because I've been to his place already and maybe I shouldn't... I'm still a virgin despite my age and he just keeps asking for sex. I've told him I want to know him better first so that I can feel more comfortable but he doesn't seem to understand. He just kind of gets angry and says he feels like it so much. Today he told me he doesn't want to look for sex somewhere else if it's ME that he likes. I get the feeling that it sounded more like a menace. Like he was underlyingly telling me: "either we have sex or I'll have it all the same with another girl". Do you think I'm being paranoid about it? I mean, come on, I know I'm old enough for sex- everybody I know around my age has already done it. But I think he's pressing me so I don't feel comfortable with that. I just don't know if I should please him or wait till I do feel easier about it. I just don't want to lose him now that I've but met him!

Hi all, Just saw this site accidentally and couldn't stop reading the posted messages. So decided why not write myself? Actually, I thought I needed some kind of advice, even if my message may sound too ridiculous to some of you. Anyway, here's the story... I met a guy yesterday. I was chatting with him on the Internet and we decided to meet. He said he was French, but then when i met him personally, he told me his father was from Tunisia. I've only met him once but I did kind of liked him. So we're bound to meet tomorrow again. Anyway, I've told my mum about him and she's got just hysterical. She's kind of obsessed with Moslem people as she says their religion is just way too different. Okay, you may laugh but she's already thinking he might want to kidnap my future children!! She's obviously over-reacting. But it hurt me a lot to see her feeling so miserable about it, crying and so on. So I even considered phoning him and telling him not to meet him again. My family won't aprove such a relationship, that's for sure (in case there's ever ANY relationship whatsoever, that is to say). But I hardly know him so far, so it wouldn't be hard saying goodbye to him now. I won't do that if time goes on and i get to really fancy him though. What I don't know is whether this is just a racist problem or there's also a lot of truth lying underneath. I mean, a lot of people who married Moslems from say, Morocco, have had a hard time when they separated. But this doesn't sound like a reasonable thought not to try and start something with him, does it?. Okay, thank you for reading this. Hopefully you won't think I'm just too dumb... And sorry about my English in case there are many mistakes, it's just not my mother tongue!