Ivy1

I'm sure she still has feelings of love and concern for you but her heart has moved on to someone else. I think it will take time, finding peace within yourself and the friends around you to feel better. One day you will find the girl that makes you realize, "yes my ex was great, but this new woman is the best." Ivy1

I know, I guess having him as a friend for now is the best thing we both can do. Thanks.

I was in your same shoes when I was younger, and my boyfriend who was to years older than I was wanted us to have sex. It was one of the most regretful mistakes of my life. Wait to you have no doubt in your mind that the decision is right. Good luck sweetie.

I think I know what your kinda going through. I'm from a REALLY small town so word gets around really fast. I found out this guy at work liked me and at first I didn't him but unlike you now I kinda do. As I read more of the advice by others I beginning to think that you just got to be honest with yourself and him, you done a good job being honest with him now he knows that you guys will only be friends and nothing more, that's not so bad.

There's this really nice and sweet guy at work that at first I didn't like, in a romantic sense, now after sometime I find myself falling for him each and everyday. He makes me laugh and shows me things about life I never noticed before. It's so frustrating, from time to time, we'll talk and I just want to lean in and kiss him because I get this sense that he wants to too. He told a co-worker how perfect he thought I am and how he would like to start seeing me but he didn't know if it would make things weird. I wouldn't normally date someone from work but I would hate to see an opportunity like this pass me by, he really makes me happy. Not to long ago my boyfriend of 8 years left me for my "supposedly" best friend, and it really go to me and I didn't think I would feel this way again, and when I first met him I didn't feel this way, now I can't help myself. Sorry if I'm rambling on, PLEASE HELP!!!