vckyjam

it's been 7 days no contact and i am hating every second of it, i will let you know if anything happens x

god,seems silly me going on, when you were gonna get hitched!

We loved each other, (well he says he loves me) its been a 2 year relationship but the problem is that it has been long distance! we have called each other /e-mailed and text, most days for the past year and a half and seen each other every 3 months or so, he has just gone back home, i left him at the airport crying his eyes out.....But i dont know what to do, i cant go to live in aus as i cant get a visa, but he could come and live here if he wanted, the thing is he worried about coming here just in case things go wrong......Im so confused, i dont think he knows what he wants in life, Because i thought at some point he would move to be with me, being told that "IM NOT SURE" was a big kick in the teeth for me, so i thought the only way i can get through this is to not to talk to him, Beacsue i dont want to be walked all over, I told him not to contact me. i know i have the right thing, but im scared, But im also a girl with pride, so i know i wont give in........So far he has not called me, i want him to call so much, but then again if he does call and his feelings have not change about coming here, then its gonna take me longer to get through this

It sounds like your doing the right thing! Im very good a dishing out advice but sometimes taken it is hard, even tho it hurts. But you tend to find that people on the outside can see clearer of that on the inside. One thing i do know is that you have to love yourself first! And when you love yourself other people will love you too. You need to get strong easy said i know. Once you get in that frame of mind then things will fall into place. Trust me

Do you think that the no contact rule works? its been 8 days, im trying not to keep looking at my phone etc etc.........and im trying to keep busy, but feel like im a psyco.....(even tho i have not been in touch with him) GRRRRR help

Hi yeah your right, he just cant seem to make his mind up. so i just said enough is enough.

some advice please........ Ive been in a long distance relationship for 2 years(im from uk, and he from aus) and have been madly in love, last week he went home from a visit to england, but told me when he was over here, that he still wasnt sure if he was come here to live, so we could be together (but says he loves me), he has 8 months on a course he has to finish. for the past 2 years we have more or less spoke to each other or text every day. sorry if this confusing. Beacvuse he told me this i called it off, and told him not to call me, or text me its been almost a week now, and im finding it hard. am i doing the right thing..........