I've been in a serious relationship for a year with a guy who is recently divorced. He has a daughter with his ex wife and I am extremely jealous when she comes to visit. It's horrible! She's cute as can be and I know the jealousy doesn't come from her...it's because of the ex-wife. It seems every time the daughter calls he has to talk to his ex and then its turns into some kind of fight between them and between me. Even if its just his daughter calling I get this really frustrated feeling inside. I have never dated anyone with a child and I was wondering if these feelings are normal? How can I deal with it? His daughter is very blunt and tells you exactly what she thinks...well what her mom thinks. I guess her mom tells bad stuff about me, that I'm ugly, I'm funny looking, I'm not a nice person, etc...the list goes on.
I try to talk to my boyfriend about all these issues but when I do it turns into ME NOT WANTING HIS DAUGHTER! Well, thats what he believes. I don't know what to do I don't want this problem to become bigger then it already is. Can someone please HELP?!?