Gabacho23238 Posted December 5, 2002 Share Posted December 5, 2002 theres a girl at school, i like her and she just broke up with her boyfriend about 2 weeks ago, i really want to hook up with her, ive never asked a girl out before, so how do i ask her, she knows i like her but were just friends, what can i do to get her to like me back??? Link to comment
Evergreen19 Posted December 8, 2002 Share Posted December 8, 2002 Here's what I do: If I like a girl, I'll wait for her to send out signals: looking at me when I'm not looking, looking down when I catch her doing this, playing with her hair, smiling...shit like that. Then, I go up to her when she's by herself (very important) and smile. If I don't know her, with a deep yet playful voice I say "so what's your name?" If I do know this girl, I ask her questions about her life--how she's handling school, what she plans to do later, etc. That shows concern. Then, I transition from that to what I plan to do. If she's not busy with school or otherwise, I then say something like "I'm going to ____. It'll be hot. Come along, we'll have some fun." Instead of asking her to come along, I make it more of a subtle command--it's more assertive that way. Avoid the words "date" and "go out"--they're too serious. A date is just a fun outing that can lead to more "fun" if you know what I'm saying. In recap, smile, show concern, talk about something cool, suggest that she go with you. IF you're friends, she shouldn't resist. I haven't been turned down for a date (out of lack of interest) with this approach. Link to comment
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