Should I call her?

My ex and I had an explosive fight. We were in a funk and it snowballed into a very bad argument. We insulted each other. It was the first time that ever happened and we had been dating for five months.

I probably said worse things to her, but she said some pretty terrible things to provoke that. That being said, I regret my words and am ashamed of myself for trying to hurt her. Irrespective of what she said to me, I don't think that is ever right. After our fight I apologized and she didn't accept that apology.

I texted her many times and she barely responded, and when she did, she was still very mad. She said the whole event convinced her to take a break from dating. I tried to apologize more, to no avail, and then I said I would call her later in the week after giving her some time, but now I wonder if I should. I thought maybe she would cool off and that we could repair this. On the one hand, I don't want to end things and come off as not caring by not calling. On the other hand, I don't want to be pathetic. I know that is not attractive. I apologized quite a bit, so part of me thinks I should let her come to me if she wants, but I also placed the ball in my court by saying I would Calle

What should I do? Is no contact appropriate here or should I try to fix it first? Or should I try once more and then go no contact?

How about showing up at her doorstep with some flowers, chocolate and apologies? Stop thinking like a male -- well, "let her come to me." Show her you care about her. That will take you a long way to getting back together.

What did you say?

Texting is so impersonal.

Show up. One last try won't hurt.

If she's resistive, forget it.

She was wrong as well.

I want to know what he said?