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Hey guys. I am a little suspicious lately as the guy I'm seeing says all the time amd I quote "I'm not doing anything wrong" even when I haven't accused him of anything. Is he just lying about texting other women as I have casual lay asked and said I won't be mad just be honest please. Any advice would help

Is this the same guy that is distant some times and close others?

Have you agreed to be in a relationship and not to see anyone else, or are you just at the casual dating stage. Because if you are just casually dating and he is messaging other women, then he is right, he is not doing anything wrong.

No he wants to date only me so I'm not sure why he is acting this way

You've only been on a few dates with him. It's really not your business who he texts or doesn't text, and you asking is itself evident you'd most likely get mad or upset if he answered with "yes."

Agreed but he is the one that wants to be exclusive and all I want is honesty

The question then is: Do you consider this a red flag and if so, perhaps it's best to not pursue it this relationship further. It is too soon to be arguing over this kind of thing.