I buy him a gift and he reject it

I book for us a thai massage and he refuse it and he call the manager to refund the money and i ask him why he told me why you spend your money so easy he want me to save it or spend it to my kids but i told him since your birthday will come i want to give you a gift but he told me no i dont want you to spend money..... even to his kid he dont want me to spend money even small amount he dont want why his like that i feel so sad..... ge refuse it all..... he dont know i feel so happy when i buy something to his kid or give him a gift

Do you have the money to spend? If not, then you should put your children needs first.