i still love her so much..:(

[blink_guy]

well i broke up wit my gf about a month ago an i still love her so much and im just a mess

what can i do?how do i know if i can get back togethjer with her?

[nadine_3110]

There's nothing we can really tell you that will convince you to get back together with her. Just take some time to think about it, don't let it consume your life though. Just think, would you be happier with her, or with someone else?

[robowarrior]

Do not go into a relationship expecting it to work out just because it concerns your case, reality is that a girl can pick up her bags and leave anyday, from that you should understand that you need to be able to have a life of your own ,completely independent from a girl, this because you can love a girl but you can't own them, its all about being together, but still letting eachother being able to do their own thing. But what's most important now , is that you bring the power of your life back where it belongs, namely in your hands. Don't give it away to other people. Its ok to keep on loving her, just understand that the road has come to a dead end and you have to turn around and head back to the main highway of life.

[Gracelove]

Why did you break up with her?

Whether you can get back with her or not depends on how you treated her during the break up.

Were you rude? Insensitive???

[blink_guy]

no i was very very sensative...i broke up with her because she said she loves me but she doesnt know waht kind of love it was