EvaGina Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 So, whats the deal with spanking? My bf likes it, not in the "put me over his knee" kinda way, but just once or twice, quite hard, while we are having sex... Hes the first guy I have been with that gets into it... I like it, but I think thats only becuase I know HE likes it... So, people, whats the ker-fuffle with spanking? Link to comment
Hayles Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 hehe... I don't get it... my man does it once in a while in a seemingly "joking" manner... I often wonder if he awaits my reaction to see if it's something I'd get into, and I think it's something he'd be happy for me to get into... but it's not for me, it just makes me laugh and wonder "what on earth is he doing?!" Link to comment
EvaGina Posted February 28, 2007 Author Share Posted February 28, 2007 eh he, you have 69 posts -giggle- Yeah, I am always a little shocked, but if he likes it so much and I dont have a problem with it, Ill get into it for him... Link to comment
ScreenagerX Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 Eva, are you talking giving or receiving? Or both? Link to comment
EvaGina Posted February 28, 2007 Author Share Posted February 28, 2007 Eva, are you talking giving or receiving? Or both? receiveing... I smack him on the butt sometimes, but in a joking way, and not during sex... Link to comment
ScreenagerX Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 Oh. The GF & I do it to each other occasionally (yes sometimes during sex/foreplay) but to be honest I think its more joking than anything else. Doesn't do alot for me but I'll ask her if she likes it Link to comment
Hayles Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 [QUOTE=Eva 1487019]eh he, you have 69 posts -giggle- Yeah, I am always a little shocked, but if he likes it so much and I dont have a problem with it, Ill get into it for him...[/quote] Hayles: Is there a problem with the amount of posts? Ms. OVER 1,000 posts?! hehe, is this a little backlash for the other day's joke about posting being a race to beat you?! hehe I'll be honest, I love this site, it's so interesting, you can learn and respond and just have the kind of general convo you would have with your friends... without all the bias... it's awesome... I feel at home here!!! Good on you for 'getting into it' for your man, he must appreciate that! Link to comment
spunkmaster Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 it reminds me of that scene from..."along came Polly" I think it is, where someone gave him advice to "accidentally" spank her to see if she liked it. Or something to that effect anyways, haha... My fiancee likes to do it to me sometimes. It's not that great, but he enjoys doing it, so whatev. Link to comment
EvaGina Posted February 28, 2007 Author Share Posted February 28, 2007 [QUOTE=Eva 1487019]eh he, you have 69 posts -giggle- Yeah, I am always a little shocked, but if he likes it so much and I dont have a problem with it, Ill get into it for him...[/quote] Hayles: Is there a problem with the amount of posts? Ms. OVER 1,000 posts?! hehe, is this a little backlash for the other day's joke about posting being a race to beat you?! hehe I'll be honest, I love this site, it's so interesting, you can learn and respond and just have the kind of general convo you would have with your friends... without all the bias... it's awesome... I feel at home here!!! Good on you for 'getting into it' for your man, he must appreciate that! 69 posts... lol, I didnt even realise i had over 1000, I still thought I was at 300... gah work is boring anyone out there like spanking their gf? I really wanna know why he likes it so much Link to comment
Hayles Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 oh... hehe, told yu.... I'm sooo no sex kitten!!!!! that just went straight over my head!!!!! hehehe!!!!!! Link to comment
ScreenagerX Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 I am curious as to the attraction myself now. I like to 'grab' my GF's rear randomly cause I like it plus I like to...........ahh..........sorry Tell me Spunkmaster; is there something behind your avatar? Link to comment
thyroxine Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 I think it's fun, but I don't like it to be too hard. I have to constantly have to be watching my behind around my boyfriend. He loves to spank and sometimes really hard. >_ Link to comment
MissTee Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 My boyfriend loves doing this too! If I'm really in the mood, I actually like it! It gets me going... Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted March 5, 2007 Share Posted March 5, 2007 I like it too when the other person does that Link to comment
WizardElement5 Posted March 5, 2007 Share Posted March 5, 2007 Spanking can be great fun, but ONLY if the woman is turned on by it. I would never ever just hit a woman to see if she liked it because that seems to me to be very close to physical abuse. But if a woman requested a spanking because that's what she likes, then it can be very sexy. I think it's great for some women and totally wrong for others. Link to comment
astaro Posted March 5, 2007 Share Posted March 5, 2007 well, first and foremost i am an a** guy so the original question is a no brainer why do people enjoy it? i think one option is the power trip aspect, same reason a lot of men like anal sex. most guys would love to tie their girl to the bed and have their way with her. its a fantasy thing. in addition for a lot of people pain and pleasure mix very well, both my last ex's liked suffication and getting spanked. never had a women actualy ask me to choke her before i would say spanking is newbie S&M Link to comment
EvaGina Posted March 5, 2007 Author Share Posted March 5, 2007 although the thought of hardcore S&M doesnt turn me on (we use cuffs and htings, but they are more for him... not me) I didnt think spanking did either until he started doing it... Link to comment
astaro Posted March 5, 2007 Share Posted March 5, 2007 here is a challenge for ya, what is hardcore S&M ? its a very general definition, anything from sensory deprivation, binding, submission games, spankings. always fun to stretch your boundaries. Link to comment
eliza Posted March 5, 2007 Share Posted March 5, 2007 Ohh.. I like spanking. Mm... grrrr. I really like the whole dominance thing. (Plus it's so close to fingering..which plays a big part in it for me. Ohh) Link to comment
applepie Posted March 5, 2007 Share Posted March 5, 2007 The last guy I was with was really into it. He loved to be spanked and dominated. I found this kind of creepy. I didn't enjoy it at all. I much prefer to be the one who gets dominated, although I don't like spanking. Needless to say, it didn't work out between us. He was also a toe sucker...yuuuuck. Link to comment
astaro Posted March 5, 2007 Share Posted March 5, 2007 He was also a toe sucker...yuuuuck. i know a girl that can ALLMOST orgasm from that Link to comment
applepie Posted March 5, 2007 Share Posted March 5, 2007 He was also a toe sucker...yuuuuck. i know a girl that can ALLMOST orgasm from that That's what he said and that's why he wanted to try it on me. I'm the kind of person who goes barefoot EVERYWHERE. All I could think about was what had been on my feet over the past few years. Definitely not orgasm inducing for me. Link to comment
EvaGina Posted March 5, 2007 Author Share Posted March 5, 2007 here is a challenge for ya, what is hardcore S&M ? its a very general definition, anything from sensory deprivation, binding, submission games, spankings. always fun to stretch your boundaries. I dno... Ill do anything he asks really, but we are still "new" enough to find plain old sex interesting I hates toe sucking until my bf started doing it to me... it drives me mad... Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted March 6, 2007 Share Posted March 6, 2007 so, is there a relationship between getting spanked and the other wanting/liking anal sex? Link to comment
applepie Posted March 6, 2007 Share Posted March 6, 2007 so, is there a relationship between getting spanked and the other wanting/liking anal sex? I'm not sure. I hate being spanked and hate anal sex, so possibly. I'd like to see what others have to say. Link to comment
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