Is This Normal For A Guy?

[PunkRcker8906]

Weve been going out for almost 7 months. I love him to death. I would like go crazy without him.

[Locke2121]

Then let nature take its course! Or if your that scared, talk to him about it. Express your worries about his parents and see where that gets the two of you.

[PunkRcker8906]

I cant open up to him like that.... we just never really talk like that.

[Locke2121]

???

 

Ok, then there are more problems here than just a hot and heavy cuddle session! Communication is THE most important thing in any relationship. More important that love, sex or anything. If the two of you can't talk about anything and everything, then there are going to be more problems down the road than a skidmark in his drawers or a couple of angry parents!

 

You had better learn to open up to him, and at the same time get him to open up to you, or you might as well start looking for someone new. Go to the infidelity section and read some of the posts. I can safely say that about 95% of them have their problems based in non-communication.

[ghost69]

waiting for us to respond isn't what you should be doing for the answers. you should only do that if the answers he gives you don't make sense. you need to talk to him about this.

 

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[lifestream]

Trust me, he wouldn't feel uncomfortable. No offense but teenage boys have to find ways to sneak in porn time (generally) without their parents knowing. This really isn't any different. If anything they'll know that his hair and your hair are messed up anyhow! They aren't stupid. I doubt that they think that you guys aren't making out. Taking it a step further won't harm anything.

[ghost69]

wait til the parents are busy making dinner or something and go for it.

 

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[Altruist]

Hmm, not a good idea to do it at home. The sneaky little brothers/sisters are sure to find out.

[ghost69]

don't you have a car?

 

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[Altruist]

A friend's house?

[addictedblue]

Weve been going out for almost 7 months. I love him to death. I would like go crazy without him.

 

just a piece of advice here, its not a good idea to be so obsessed with a boyfriend of 7 months like you say you are here. its dangerous to invest yourself and your heart that deep into someone, because you never know what couild happen, and the deeper you invest yourself the more it will hurt later on. don't say things like you'd go crazy without him, because i'm guessing you're young and things and people change, just be careful. (not trying to be pessimistic, just keepin it real). don't put all your eggs in one basket, as they say, because if and when that baskets drops, you've lost everything. make sure to keep up relationships with friends and family too, don't just focus on him.