Good Idea...or bad idea?

[Alabama]

I posted in an earlier post that I asked a girl out and she said sure, but I would just need to pick when. We haven't got on a date yet, but I had a friend call me and ask if I wanted to go on a double date with him. I said yes, but would this be a bad idea, if I thought of going with someone else on a different date, even we haven't had one yet?

[darkpumpkin]

I would leave the double date when first going out with a girl. Unless she is mutual friends with your friend or your friends girlfrined. A first date to me should be between two people so you can really get a feel for each other

[shes2smart]

If she already knows your buddy and/or his date, I think it would be ok. Might even take some of those "first-date" jitters away, since there'd be some other friendly faces there and other people to help keep conversation flowing.

 

If she doesn't know either your buddy or his date, I'd pass on the idea until you've gone out with her a few times. Going out with 3 people you don't know very well can be a daunting prospect for most people. (Some very social types might like it, I guess...) Wait until you've got some sort of relationship established with her before your spring your friends on her.

[Jeffrey2095]

I'm with Darkpumpkin and Shes2smart on this.

 

A solo date would be preferential.

 

Good luck and best wishes.

 

Jeff

[i1dr]

Solo. Half the trouble ... double the potential.

[Beec]

No double dates, not yet, not until it begins to become a relationship.

[Alabama]

I should have specified; the double date would be with my friend and 2 other girls I don't know. It's not with the girl I asked out, though. My friend is going with a girl, and she decided it seems to bring someone along, so he thought the same line.

[Beec]

If it is with a different girl, a set up, then go.