signs?

[amour est toujours]

Here's a question:

 

Do any of you really think that there are such things that can acts as 'signs' for what to do in a romantic situation?

 

Are there certain things that happen for a reason, or do you think it's just how we perceive it to be?

 

Just because we like the same things and have the same thoughts and occurrences strangely happen, does it really mean we're 'meant to be'?

 

or do you think there is no such thing as being 'meant to be?'

 

...just something i think about...

[Ericson]

Nope. Think about it, is there a God? Well.. That's a question of faith. So is this, believe what you will, but if you've ever read mathmatic solutions to everyday life books, then you'll see that everyone and everyone has a solution. That using a foruma everything comes out to be the same #-

[Fisch]

 

Do any of you really think that there are such things that can acts as 'signs' for what to do in a romantic situation?

Good god yes, for example if you ask her if she wants to kiss you then you should have a kiss.

 

Are there certain things that happen for a reason, or do you think it's just how we perceive it to be?

There are reasons lots of things happen, for example the reason the sun is bright is because its made of fire...

 

Just because we like the same things and have the same thoughts and occurrences strangely happen, does it really mean we're 'meant to be'?

What does meant to be mean for you exactly?

[g1234567890h]

Everything is a sign because what everyone does means something. If you've ever studied any sort of science or religion, there is meaning writ into every fiber of existence. Take quantum mechanics for example. Nothing exists independent of the observer. That implies meaning. Of course there's meaning, you just have to decipher it.

[lifestream]

But at the same time you could read a book and CREATE an element that wasn't intended to be there.

 

For example, an apple in a book could be seen as a symbol for wisdom. But sometimes the author intends it JUST to be an apple. You see what I'm saying?

 

There is no such thing as meant to be. That relegates everything to destiny. Your relationships do NOT rest on destiny. They rest on you and your significant other.

[desertnomad]

This is a great question. I have been in relationships that have had some really crazy signs or coincidences.

 

For instance in one we both had the same exact picture framed and hanging in our living room and not a common picture at all. I never met anyone else friend or otherwise with that picture.

 

We were both shocked when we saw it in the backgrounds of each others pictures. It helped bring us closer but things like that didnt keep us together.

 

In the end fate rests with the two people involved as lifestream said above. We all make our choices for better or for worse in the end.

[Jetta]

There are no accidents. I have found this to be true. It's as if everything is planned by someone, even things we think are not. So yes I believe in signs.

[Zaphod]

There are no accidents.

 

Freud - yes?