losing it while down there

[Big Jim]

Hey this is kinda embarrassing, however recently it has me wondering if it is normal. When I'm going down on a girl for a long time, I sometimes lose my erection. I dunno, its not that i don't enjoy doing it or am weirded out at all. I just seem to lose it, it comes but after, but do most guys stay hard the entire time?

[shikashika]

no its normal... LOTS of guys lose their erection

[anggrace]

I guess it depends on how long your "down there". I think if its for a while, its pretty common. The important thing is....it comes back

[Hope75]

Are you feeling nervous about what will happen next?

 

Sometimes performance anxiety can "get you down".

 

Sometime you might try is having her reciprocate while you go down on her. Some stimulation for you might be all you need to keep hard until it's time for intercourse.

[arwen]

I think that Hope is right, while focusing on her, while not stimulated yourself it's common to get softer for a while. Don't worry or find an interesting way to have her stimulate you meanwhile (like the famous 69 position).

 

arwen

[Day_Walker]

I wouldnt worry about it

[MacGyverRI]

Concentrating on her pleasure will make that happen, totally normal unless you're in a sixty nine.

[Agathon]

Those who said that it's normal are right.

 

Perfectly natural, nothing to worry about.

 

However yeah, stimulating yourself doesnt hurt either... although it can be tough.