resi71 Posted January 24, 2007 Share Posted January 24, 2007 why girls like to dump you before hoildays?you are looking forvard for romantic holiday and just before that they want to break up Link to comment
Biffy Posted January 24, 2007 Share Posted January 24, 2007 I think that's kind of stereotyping a touch! My last ex dumped right after I took her away on holiday! Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted January 24, 2007 Share Posted January 24, 2007 yes, i agree there's a little stereotyping going on. Link to comment
resi71 Posted January 24, 2007 Author Share Posted January 24, 2007 my girl dump me before x-mas,when we must go to california and meet all her family Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted January 24, 2007 Share Posted January 24, 2007 sorry about that but dont put such a harsh stereo type of girls. We aren't all bad and such cruel creatures Link to comment
thyroxine Posted January 24, 2007 Share Posted January 24, 2007 I agree it's stereotyping...but I have to admit when I break up with someone, it's usually around the holidays (mainly Christmas.) It just happens around that time. I think it's more that I'll have a break from school during the holidays and (as bad as it may sound) I'll actually have the time to break up with someone. Link to comment
anggrace Posted January 24, 2007 Share Posted January 24, 2007 While I dont think it applies to everyone- I have found that break-ups occur around Xmas. Thats not to say that I "like" to break up with people then, its just the way it seems to happen. I have pondered this and heres why I think it happens (with me) 1. Around xmas I feel a bit stressed with all of the shopping, spending, ect. This can lead to more arguing. 2. There are many family get togethers on both sides. If things arent going real well, you start to wonder if you should involve your SO in family matters. So you might over analyze the relationship. 3. You might have more time off, which leads to more time together- and in many cases, you then discover that you arent so compatible. Link to comment
keefy1972 Posted January 24, 2007 Share Posted January 24, 2007 It's better to get dumped before x mas than after. At least you don't get mad about blowing wads of cash on gifts for them. It's all in how you look at it. Link to comment
flower99 Posted January 24, 2007 Share Posted January 24, 2007 Yes I agree with Keefy...Brightside....Maybe she did it to save you money (: Link to comment
deejay74 Posted January 24, 2007 Share Posted January 24, 2007 interesting post (i agree it is stereotypical) but it brings up another interesting topic that a lot of break ups do happen around the holidays. my ex dumped me the day before new year's eve (i guess that makes it the eve of new year's eve). not sure why this seems to be a common occurrence. Link to comment
deejay74 Posted January 24, 2007 Share Posted January 24, 2007 It's better to get dumped before x mas than after. At least you don't get mad about blowing wads of cash on gifts for them. It's all in how you look at it. so true. what made me angry for a while is that i am sure my ex knew, or wanted, to break up with me before xmas. yet we exchanged gifts and my mom and step dad even spent $200 on her. i had brought these gifts for her back from visiting my family. i then went to her work on 12/29 and gave her all the gifts. we said i love you and i miss you, then she came over the next day and dumped me!! and she kept those gifts!! i'll never know why she accepted those gifts the DAY before she broke up with me. if the roles were reversed, i would have accpeted those gifts, but i would have given them back the next day when i was breaking up. i would feel guilty to keep them. i dunno, maybe i in the minority on this. Link to comment
resi71 Posted January 25, 2007 Author Share Posted January 25, 2007 my girl dump me before x-mas,i got for her and her son x-mas gifts what she not return it,but i still want her back Link to comment
Jason1080 Posted January 25, 2007 Share Posted January 25, 2007 Same here, my ex dumped me right before Xmas, she pretty much ruined my xmas. She also just decided to dump me out of nothing, feels like a knife to the heart. Link to comment
resi71 Posted January 25, 2007 Author Share Posted January 25, 2007 to jason1080 i have same story,dump me before x-mas,just cut like with knife,did not say why,sayd you know. i think she was stressd with online school and exam and her mom.i did everything to help her in my heart.it is have been now 2 month and i miss her so much,hang on ,be strong Link to comment
boosted4life84 Posted January 25, 2007 Share Posted January 25, 2007 My three year relationship ended the day after my Birthday, which was one week before Christmas. It certainly made for a rough Holiday Season, however, there are plenty more to enjoy for the rest of your life. I still love her and we still talk, she kept the gifts that I bought for her. At first I blamed her for doing this at such a "convenient" time (total sarcasm). However, it does seem as though that time of year is fairly common for breakups. Link to comment
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