expectations from a friend

[hennypenny3288]

With friends, do you expect to see them a certain amount of time a week? like once or twice a week to shoot the breeze and hang loose. If they didn't keep to that schedule or it was constantly changed, would it bother you? Would it worry you?

 

How would you handle it?

[Luke Skywalker]

I dont like hanging out with people too much in general so it wont bother me.

But, once a month should be fine, or once every other month.

[Psylocke]

I would expect to hear from a friend, whether email, IM, in person or whatever at least a couple times a month. People's schedules do get mucked up every now and again so sometimes there can be a long span of no communications.

 

Friendship is a two way street, if it's only going one way there's something wrong.

[blue-eyedspacemonkey]

I don't have a schedule to see my friends, because we all have different timetables, so we'll email/txt seeing when we are free and can hang out, sometimes it can be a long time before we see each other, but we're cool with it cuz we understand that we need to do our own thing.

I would start to get a bit worried if all of a sudden they were constantly busy(but I get paranoid)....if that is what's happening then talk to them, make sure everythings ok with them.

[HarleyHunny]

One thing about expectations, doesn't matter who, where, what, when, you'll always be let down at some point......People are just people....Trying lowering your expectations of others and raising the ones for yourself.