bravobjj Posted January 18, 2007 Share Posted January 18, 2007 I have known this girl for a couple years now and we are good friends. I have recently realized that I have a huge crush on this girl. I cannot think of anything else. Her and I are really good friends and I do not think she thinks of me like I do of her but she does joke about how we hang out so much its is like boyfriend and girlfriend but I do not know how to tell her my true feelings without ruining the relationship or putting the relationship into jeopardy. I need your help and advice. I have never had a crush like this before and I don’t know what to do. I am 21 years old this week and I need your help. another note we have a ton in common weather it be sports or school we have the same major i would do and or try anything please give me some advice to get out of the friend zone and try and make her see that i like her wthout jepordizing the friendship thank you Link to comment
BYOB Posted January 18, 2007 Share Posted January 18, 2007 Whatever the way that you'll put this on the table, I think that it has to be said. If you're as good friends as you pretend, she will understand. So if she is really a good friend, she has to know it for sure, that's my opinion. Link to comment
Honey Pumpkin Posted January 18, 2007 Share Posted January 18, 2007 Go for it - ask her out somewhere nice, and tell her that you have feelings for her. She might be intrigued, she might return your feelings, she might knock you back. But at least you will KNOW, and can move forwards with this. Otherwise unexpressed longings can stick with you for years. Good luck!! Link to comment
JulieW Posted January 18, 2007 Share Posted January 18, 2007 You must say something. I would rather be rejected over NEVER knowing. That's me though. It depends on which is more horrible for you Link to comment
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