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    I made this poem when I was 18. All I remember is that although it is very short, it is very profound. I am aware that it might not be very clear and easy to understand but it is full of details. It is also quite significative to me who knows its meaning. I also remember the intensity that I had put in this poem when I wrote it. So enjoy reading... LIFE’S MURDER Portrait of possessions Fills Paul of Protections Fading of old phases pulp up vivid pulses. crucible of his crimes Commits Perpetuity. cadence, calamity Cold Pair of Mimes Destined, done to whom ? portal; Discrepancy despair, disloyalty Pool of a selfish Doom
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    You do not have to be mad at you because NC is a very difficult accomplishment. Plus, you are not really going back to sqare one since you have passed through some more of your life in the meantime. The problem is when you stop moving forward. I wish you will resist not to answer to the phone next time he calls. Be strong.
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    I really enjoy meeting people. The first steps to get to know someone are the hardest though.
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    I would suggest that you ask him on the spot. For exemple, if he says he is going to bed at 9:30 again. If you can push it a bit more than usual, it is only because you were in a good relationship. If you realise that it is not the case anymore, it is better to calm down with questions for your own good. What do you think about that ?
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    Anyone more experienced that passed by the same phase and who could guide someone going through it ?
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    I have none of those. In fact I do enjoy my interests. However, I said that I have none of those likes for a special reason that makes the affirmation become more right than false. Again, do not let yourself down and keep on seeking help when you need it. It is brilliant.
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    No, no, no! you are not alone ! But of course I can understand how hard it can be to believe so just because you are a minority of the population to think like you do. Have you some contacts made on internet ? At school ? It is most unlikely to find people similar to you at work or in the street. Use tools necessary to be successful and give yourself time and you will have some results. What do you think about that ?
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    It will not change from today to tomorrow but there is no time when you can start to put back balance into your life. I do not know if you really value having a boyfriend but although it is a good goal in life, it is not necessary to be successful. I really hope that you will find the strenght to come back. In fact, that inner strenght is within everyone.
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    He would lick your hair! No...There is really no particular sign that you can expect. The most common one will be to look at you like the others said but every person has a very different way to express his attraction to you. So why do not you just approach that person and enjoy a casual talk ? It is fun ! Some do not like it but nobody should be shy to try so. Too few does it, do not you think ? From that small talk, however, you can notice more signs to know if he is interested. Do you know what I am talking about ? Feeding the conversation is the best sign, stress (not always), replicate tone and moves, etc...Then, you know the rest and...Voila!
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    You can choose to take your time. If you wait by the time that you will be nearer to get at school, you will know better at what stage you are up to and if you can really get back together. My two cents.
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    Thanks everyone. It pretty much concludes the topic as it answers me very well.
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    Everyone ask himself/herself the question at least once in his/her life. Am I straight, bi or homo ? It is easy for me to conclude that: I`ve always been attracted to women. Recently, however, I have developped a new interogation on my orientation. I would see myself make friendly contact and live with a man and to love him without having any sexual relation with him. So, what can that possibly mean ? I am wondering in between bisexuality and being surprisingly open minded. Could you clarify me this thing, please ?
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    I got news and it changes everything. (May delete)
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    Who initiated a relationship with his/her teacher and sees him/her frequently enough to say that you're friends ? Well, what have you done and what degree were you at ? Do you think it is nonsense to ask a teacher to be friends (by inviting him/her to some activities) ? I never read/heard about people that did so and how it happened. Do you think that it is normal for a university student to seek teachers as friends ?
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    I was talking to the past because I believe than I have the willpower to have lucid dreams while awake and that a while ago, I didn't. In fact, everyone has that hidden talent but it's long to develop and hard to practice.
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    I don't know and I might be wrong but are you certain that this is a good investment ? I could help you to know whether or not you're having a good deal out of this if you want and if you tell me a bit more details about that sort of relationship. I'm wondering about that fact because it must cost you a lot if you start doing that with all of your friends...
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    Valentine's day is the special day for lovers and since the intention is not to be her lover, I suggest not to do it. However, adding a note to specify your intention in this gift would be appropriate. Something like : A gift in the name of our friendship. For a great friend. I am pretty certain that she will wonder if you are trying to get closer to her though which shouldn't cause any problem but don't ask why if she comes up and say: Well I just broke up and I can't accept these. because she might conclude with something different than what you had in mind, depending on her personality.
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    You have to pass by the friend zone to become a lover. You just have not to stick to there. thereforeeee, if you have not been able to get a kiss on her lips but only on the cheek for a month, don't bother about her anymore. I mean after a month, you're dead certain. In my opinion, you shouldn't wait too long to be certain of her feelings. You should look for some signs of attention and interest. If they are positive, there is nothing to worry about. (Do you know how to recognize such signs ? If not, there are many posts on it on eNotalone) If you can't notice any, then, it is worth asking. Remember, girls often hint you to know whether if she is receptive or not and that's why signs are important. Asking her if you're in the friend zone is not an approach I would suggest you but it's better than nothing if you are really confused about it. However, if it's only the first date, you should never worry about it. If you force it, I don't think that you can go for move than a peck and then wait for her reaction. At the end of the date is cliche but it's up to you to see if you want her to expect it or not. If it's cliche, maybe it's your best chance to get one but it might be less close to perfect.
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    If you posted that thread some time earlyer, I would have been receptive to it. I really think that dreaming is a good way to start over new for anyone. Thanks for sharing, Cyprian.
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    Those clues that you have mentionned are signs of interest. Yet we are not answering your question which is all about: "What kind of interest does he have ?" I think that you're reading a lot into it. If it's not because that guy wants more than a friendship, I think that you should go to him by yourself. Or, am I completely wrong to think so ? Any other clue that you should look for will be given as soon as you date him. If you need any tip to move to the next step, don't hesitate to ask.
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    Are you in good terms with your sister ? #1 might be because of #2. ie Your sister might not like that constant flirting attitude. Concerning her attitude, you can't tell until there will be her and you in the place. So you have to meet her somewhere else in order to be able to identify the signs you're looking for. She might be flirty with all of the guys but it's different when you're only two.
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    Just telling you that I don't exist anymore. Don't bother answering.
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    Whatever the way that you'll put this on the table, I think that it has to be said. If you're as good friends as you pretend, she will understand. So if she is really a good friend, she has to know it for sure, that's my opinion.
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    I won't go do a course without feeling alone. Hobbies are expensive... I would just need a job to get into a new routine but I'm not convinced that I'll be successful to get any. So I just don't do anything. I'm thinking about other projects but I'll never push me enough to realise them. I've got some experience but I think it's junk to employers. It's all about a couple of weeks here and there. Plus I have a low self esteem and that is usually easy to see for an employer. So you see, I'm not convinced at all. It's quite sad that I'm bright enough to see all of those facts and so that they can discourage me, ain't it ?
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    I don't get it... I'm feeling quite alright right now. I'm just feeling dirty though; you know when you're into depression, you don't do ANYTHING, right ? The weather in canada is back to normal. We've had a lot of rain but this week, we're having days of 15 under zero. What's "freaking cold" for you in Texas ? A growing echo, yeah that's pretty much it. It's unbelievable how way insane that can be. The one time I felt it and that I was surrounded by someone, I was thinking about murder, I was laying down in the kitchen and my parents were talking while preparing dinner. Other than that, being surrounded by people makes me feel great. I'll most of the times feel terrible and as soon as someone speaks to me, I'll answer truthfully that I'm fine but I'll drop down into sadness as soon as we leave each other. Does it happen to you too ? (I was feeling better before you answered, by the way. I involved myself on a forum I didn't get involved for a while and it made me feel good, along with watching a movie I didn't see for a while.)
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