VirginGirl85 Posted January 13, 2007 Share Posted January 13, 2007 Ok so I am 3 weeks away from my 22nd birthday! I'm excited but as of lately I've been pretty down. I'm kinda shy in my opinion but everyone says I'm outgoing. I've never been on a date and never had a real boyfriend just two phone ones (one guy I met online and we met but a week later broke up and the other a friend set me up with but we never met). I've only made out once with a guy that I can remember and I was a little drunk. I've been fingered once also. When I was like twelve a friend (female) and I experimented. I think I'm ugly but I've gotten both kind of comments (pretty) and (ugly).I don't know what I am doing wrong. Any suggestions? I'm kinda flirty with guys I like but I guess I'm still doing something wrong! Link to comment
Dako Posted January 13, 2007 Share Posted January 13, 2007 Everyone's different, and some people take longer to have sex for the first time. Actually, sex is pretty dull without the excitement of being wanted for more than fooling around. Waiting until you have a caring bf is a good idea. Otherwise you may just get stuck in an awkward relationship based merely on sex, and resenting the lack of real intimacy, the sort that matters. 1 Link to comment
VirginGirl85 Posted January 13, 2007 Author Share Posted January 13, 2007 Yeah I realize that. It's not just the sex stuff just relationships in general. Link to comment
puff.tm.dragon Posted January 13, 2007 Share Posted January 13, 2007 Maybe you're TOO pretty and guys can't ask you out. Ah! That's what I'm thinking. Link to comment
MacGyverRI Posted January 13, 2007 Share Posted January 13, 2007 You really shouldn't just have sex to get it over with at your age, finding someone you have a connection with will be so much better and a nice memory. Ask your girlfriends to watch you when you're out and see if you are doing something wrong when you are talking to guys. Acting desperate or too forward or clingy may scare them off. Also, don't tell a guy that you're a virgin, wait until something is definitely going to happen then say it. Link to comment
VirginGirl85 Posted January 13, 2007 Author Share Posted January 13, 2007 I don't just say I'm a virgin. I'm actually pretty closed about that. I don't go out much because I'm always at work or school. I'm also in student government and meet alot of people. I also as I said before I dont just wana have sex but want a bf. Link to comment
VirginGirl85 Posted January 13, 2007 Author Share Posted January 13, 2007 I haven't in a while. I might be doing tomorrow. I have an event to go to tomorrow there is a guy who I like and has mentioned we should hang out more. Link to comment
VirginGirl85 Posted January 13, 2007 Author Share Posted January 13, 2007 image removed Here is what i look like Link to comment
MacGyverRI Posted January 13, 2007 Share Posted January 13, 2007 Molly Ringwold (sp?) comes to mind, get out more, there's nothing wrong w/ your looks. Link to comment
VirginGirl85 Posted January 14, 2007 Author Share Posted January 14, 2007 Well I didn't do anything really but my usual flirting. Xo Wish I could just get the huts to tell this guy I like him!!! Link to comment
DMXtreme Posted January 14, 2007 Share Posted January 14, 2007 Everyone's different, and some people take longer to have sex for the first time. Actually, sex is pretty dull without the excitement of being wanted for more than fooling around. Waiting until you have a caring bf is a good idea. Otherwise you may just get stuck in an awkward relationship based merely on sex, and resenting the lack of real intimacy, the sort that matters. I couldnt agree with you more Dako, and Im a guy! Sex complicates things, just enjoy life, build a relationship with someone and experience the wonderful feeling of true love. Link to comment
charley Posted January 14, 2007 Share Posted January 14, 2007 Virgin at 22? So what? That's no biggie. Don't worry about it. Some guys might prefer an experienced woman, but there's plenty of guys who'd prefer a virgin, and many others who don't care. I wouldn't even dream of requiring a GF to be a virgin, but if she was, honestly that'd be an emotional and physical extra turn on for me. It's nothing to be embarrassed about. Virginity is nothing to be ashamed of. Relax. You don't have an expiration date. Don't even give it another thought. Link to comment
VirginGirl85 Posted January 15, 2007 Author Share Posted January 15, 2007 Thanks for all the comments. I guess its just me. I'm not really out to "get sum" but to just get into a game I haven't really played. Link to comment
Kevin T Posted January 16, 2007 Share Posted January 16, 2007 If only there were more women concerned about keeping their virginity, rather than throwing it away like a used kleenex where I live! But there's not. Link to comment
sparkly Posted January 19, 2007 Share Posted January 19, 2007 i was reading your thread and just thinking how alike we are.i've never had sex and i have never really dated.i like someone too and i'm too shy to tell them.i am 20. once you lose it you cant get it back and most men find it a turn on.thats right i said MEN not boys.i just think when it happens it happens and i'm in no rush.you shouldn't be either Link to comment
Allie. Posted January 20, 2007 Share Posted January 20, 2007 hmm...there's nothing wrong with being a virgin. Link to comment
VirginGirl85 Posted January 22, 2007 Author Share Posted January 22, 2007 hmm...there's nothing wrong with being a virgin. i LIKE YOUR QUOTE! I still havent asked him and glad i didnt nothing with him just im so busy i dont know if i have time. Any ways thanks everyone Link to comment
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