Should I Call of Wait For HIM to Call?

[goodnightgoodnight]

a few nights ago, a guy who i'm totally attracted to calls me up out of the the blue and asks if i want to see a movie with him (we're on winter break right now and i haven't seen him in 2 weeks). i told him that i was definitely interested in seeing a movie.

 

when he called he was in new york, and he was at the airport waiting for his flight back to california. he just said, he'll give me a ring sometime this week. it's been 3 days since he called me at the airport asking if i wanted to see a movie.

 

should i call him? or wait? would i sound desperate if i called?

[Newo Ikkin]

Hold out. Wait I'd say

You're gonna get six of one, half a dozen of the other regarding this question.

[MacGyverRI]

wait for him to call, he did say "sometime this week"

[arwen]

I'd wait. He was the one who initiated and suggested the movie-- he already asked you out, I am sure he will call you as soon as he's settled back in Cali. I think he might be scared to look desperate as well and that's the reason he didn't call directly

 

Ilse

[shikashika]

Wait for him... he suggested it... you will know if he really is interested if he calls.

 

If he wants to he will do it....if you call you won't know if he really meant to or not

[Weeblie]

Wait for him to call.

 

It's a LOT easier. You don't have to worry about looking overly excited, or looking pushy, or looking desperate, or looking whatever it is that scares guys away. You don't have to worry about leaving a horrible dorky message either.

 

I've learned that the hard way.

[Day_Walker]

He said he would call so hold him to that.