my christmas dinner story

[dpressedone89]

okay so im at christmas dinner last night. im not too big on family gatherings but i went anyway(my dad took my car where else was i gonna go) and we get there and my aunt shows up with no warning.

 

my aunt is junkie. a complete heroin addict. she is also a lesbian. she just chose to come out to my grandparents at christmas dinner. her girlfriend just happened to be african american. and made countless jokes about our "cracker *** family" which in my oppinion was inappropriate.

 

 

more than that they were both high. they were doing coke the whole night and i was the only one who noticed,(what a coincidence, me the former coke addict notcies lol who'd of thought) i even asked and she came clean when i she realized she was cornered and couldnt lie her way out.

 

i didnt say anything to anyone because well it was christmas and im no saint but it sure was an interesting night. oh by the way my aunt is 37 her gf is 17(but looks 30) so yeah.

 

now my question is, i know that everyone has stuff like this happen but does it normally happen all at once like this? i mean this is nuts it was fit to be a tv show. i dont think my family is normal lol

[xmrth]

Well that was definitely all at once-- they just brought the whole mess of themselves over there. I wouldn't worry about it though because it's not your family that has the issues, it's just those two. I don't know what you could do-- them doing coke all night, and your cousin dating someone 20 years younger than her and just everything... have your relatives done anything about it?

[dpressedone89]

my grandparents are oblivious and my dad and i just distance ourselves, we forced her into rehab twice and both times she just steals from us and uses again, its all good though

[TallyM]

My brother and his GF and friends were all on pills at the boxing day rodeo. My mum and dad didnt notice that one.

[AwdreeHpburn]

How is it "all good though"

 

Seems to me that it always all happens at once in my family too! I hate that. It IS as you said, no one's perfect but it's not always cool to dump one's imperfections on everyone gathered attempting to hav a good time.