should i apologize?

[Caterina]

What do you think I should do? There is this guy that had a push-pull relationship with me. We were friends and he was nice to me. Well, we started getting into arguments because I started to care about what he thought, while before I didn't. I started to think that we should go out. He doesn't like me that way for whatever reason, but I still feel bad because we exchanged some harsh words. He doesn't ever talk to me now. Do you think he is angry or waiting for me to apologize or just thinks that I'm ridiculous? I see him every time he signs onto AIM. Do you think I should apologize?

[zrehman]

Well the only way you should apologize is if you feel as though you did something wrong. If he did something wrong and you reacted to it and said some harsh things, he should still apologize. He is the man, he should be a man and apologize first, him acting this way is not even worth your time cause it shows that he is still immature and is not confrontational, he likes to hid behind his problems.

[Caterina]

Maybe you're right. I think that I'm also hiding behind a bigger issue. I don't know how to cope with death...recently someone died and I think that I'm taking my pain out on my friends.