What is the deal with older men?

[sparkly]

How can you tell if a guy that is 20 years older than you just wants a booty call or really does like you for you?

[SarahRose]

How can you tell if a guy that is 20 years older than you just wants a booty call or really does like you for you?

 

They just want a booty call.

[renaissancewoman101]

I think older men are cool. I have had one or two older male friends and they were never out for booty, just wanted to be my friend and hang out.

 

And they can like you for you, not just for booty. Age is no indicator of what the guy is after. You can find younger guys who are just out for booty. Just take your time to get to know the person and everything will be ok.

[rocio]

How can you tell if a guy that is 20 years older than you just wants a booty call or really does like you for you?

 

By getting to know them before you sleep with them, just like any other guy.

[krissbrown]

Well first of make sure hes single and not married. Just get to know him, I like older guys, the ones who are successful are more mature, secure, and will take you to nice dates.

[Batya33]

Like any guy, see how he behaves towards you - I will not have sex with someone until we've been dating at least a few months, we're exclusive, and there's strong potential for a future. That approach has weeded out any man who just wants a booty call.

[annie24]

if he's calling you at 2 AM, it's a booty call. if he only wants to talk about sex related topics with you, it's a booty call. if he's calling and asking you out at the last minute, to come over to his place and watch a DVD, that sounds like a booty call.

 

If he's into you, he'll call you up a few days in advance and ask you out on a proper date (ie, outside of the house).

 

does he express interest in your life and your job and what you do?

[sparkly]

yes he does.always asks me questions.

[christos104]

haha, pretty good advice so far - in this regard guys are the same regardless of age, so you can apply the general rules, that is if you gals haven't changed them again in the last 5 minutes lol

[sparkly]

hey you're not that bad looking.