crush makes me anxious!

[oneshygal]

My crush at work is making me sick to my stomach. The past two mornings, I have woken up with a huge pit in my stomach and I'm nervous about seeing him today. I'm nervous about how my hair and clothes will look, will i say or do something stupid, will i realize he is dating another, etc. I know it's crazy, I realize that, but I don't know how to stop it.

 

I know people will tell me to go and talk to him, but he's tried 3 times to start up a conversation with me and I completely freeze every time. Once he speaks, I get really anxious, my stomach drops and I can feel myself shaking.

 

I try to reason with myself, but it's not working. I'm hoping something you guys have to say can actually turn these feelings around for me.

 

thanks for your help!

[BYOB]

If you could get his e-mail address, you wouldn't have to see him and freeze. Of course, you wouldn't see him and thereforeeee it wouldn't be as intimate but at least it would give you a chance to get more confortable at being with him (virtualy), I guess.

 

Aside of that, I agree -=Innocent=-'s advice.

 

Good luck!

 

Oh and you don't have to be perfect (hair, clothes) to have a guy notice you.