sfindependent Posted September 3, 2006 Share Posted September 3, 2006 how come its so hard?especially when things have been broken? shouldnt love be enough reason to have the effort to make it better? Link to comment
Relationship Coach Posted September 3, 2006 Share Posted September 3, 2006 Who ever said love was easy? RC Link to comment
Cid Posted September 3, 2006 Share Posted September 3, 2006 Love is not easy it take work to get and to keep. When things brake the only thing that you can do is keep going. Just one step at a time. Some time in are lives it will get good but there is the downs too. That is why it is called life. Link to comment
Daddy Bear Posted September 3, 2006 Share Posted September 3, 2006 falling in love is easy. keeping it alive requires effort in the arenas of self-sacrifice, communication and patience, to name just a few. Link to comment
dizzy_bruce Posted September 3, 2006 Share Posted September 3, 2006 good post, slightlybent. word. Link to comment
Dr. Faust Posted September 3, 2006 Share Posted September 3, 2006 Dude, the next time someone says love is easy, smack them. Link to comment
RayKay Posted September 3, 2006 Share Posted September 3, 2006 Love is not easy....love is not just feeling, it is action. Sometimes, even when you feel less "in love" you have to do the actions of love, to recreate and nourish the love itself. That being said, love should also not be overwhelmingly DIFFICULT to maintain - it should not feel forced. You should BOTH be committed equally to nourishing and building the love and the relationship. If it becomes too much of one person doing it all, it's very unbalanced and probably not going to work in the long run, or be very healthy for either of you. Link to comment
craign Posted September 4, 2006 Share Posted September 4, 2006 If love was so easy all of the 10000 books on relationships would be gone.What do you mean by broken.That can be many of things.Care to elaborate. Link to comment
sfindependent Posted September 7, 2006 Author Share Posted September 7, 2006 eh... I duno. U know, usual problems... drifting apart, cheating, etc etc... I was just kind of exasperating actually. Link to comment
Ms. Babydoll Posted September 9, 2006 Share Posted September 9, 2006 Love isn't easy for anyone and never will be. In the past 3 months I've had so many struggles with my boyfriend, I've had so many emotions and tears but I think through it all, the pain is worth it, especially when you're in love. Now we are in a really good spot in our relationship, we've grown really tight and can't get enough of each other and I'm really thankful I didn't decide to give up on him when I going got rough because now we think the world of each other and it's a wonderful feeling Link to comment
oh yeah Posted September 18, 2006 Share Posted September 18, 2006 congrats ms. babydoll its good to hear someones tough relationship workes out because ugh mines hell right now, maybe mine will work out too.. you've given me hope. ugh love is soooooooo NOT easy. Link to comment
sfindependent Posted September 21, 2006 Author Share Posted September 21, 2006 loving someone i think is easy... everything comes out naturally. but when ur not being loved.... then it blows to high heaven. Link to comment
redrose85 Posted September 21, 2006 Share Posted September 21, 2006 oh yeah- love isn't easy, but it shouldn't be as hard as you're describing. If there are more bad days than good, it's generally not worth it Link to comment
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