Right thing or wrong, wait or go for it?

[qtpie7113]

Hey I have been talkin to this guy from my school for a few months and we have gotten pretty close. We talk on the interent everyday and we have chilled n stuff.

 

Well last night me n my friend Loren met this kid John n then after he came back to my house, take it that we flirt alot n will joke around on the internet n stuff like ill be like im gettin in the shower n hes like aight ill be right over or just stuff bout kissin n stuff so ne ways he comes back to my house n I had wanted to kiss John about three times but I wasnt sure if he wanted me to or not so I didnt but then my friend went in my kitchen n he was right near me so I slowly leaned over n we kissed him, he tongued I didnt just cause I dunno im stupid like that lol n it was spur a the moment so I didnt think fast enough.But then after nothin happened.

 

So after he left at like 430 in the morning he got home n I was online n stuff n I was like im sory bout this kissin thing n all but I figured hey its worth a try so I took a risk (kissing is no biggie really to me) n I wasnt sure if it was wanted or whatever. So John was like no its cool I didnt mind n all n hes like I was gonna make a move but I didnt kno if you

wanted me to ( I dont know if he really wanted to or was just sayin it).

 

So after I was like b4 I get to connected n i go over my boundries n stuff do u think there will ever be a you and me n he was like yea I do but just not yet cause I dont wanna rush n all n I wanna get back on my feet again cause he was just arrested for eggin a car with some friends, which I can understad I have no problem with that cause I dont wanna rush either, so I was liek aight I feel that same thats cool. So then I was like well was that a nice way a sayin no more of those unexpected kisses n hes like no thats not it those r cool.

 

But the thing is his ex gf's friends hjate me n stuff n there all jealouys n stuff n told me not to talk to him but sorry I dont let ne one tell me what to do so I dunno if it will work out or what.

 

SO my first question is do you think I should shot for a kiss again or maybe take it a step farther or let him make the first move? Then the second part is well if my parents knew he was arrested they would not be happy at all n prob not let me hang out with him but I look at it as he was havin fun he got caught it wasnt like he robbed a car so it dosent bother me but do you think I should just take the risk n follow my heart and just not tell my parents n hope they dont find out, or does it sound like John isidsnt really interested n he just didnt wanna make me look stupid by backin away? Help what to do what to do?

[doggyfizzle]

well. Your parents have there opinions. But, there ARE NOT the ones who is going to go out with him.(well hopefully not) lol, no im just kidding. Anyway, its what you want and not what they think.

 

- Life is what we make it. always has been, always will be.

[turtle_tots]

hey i kinda no ur situation...about telling ur parents...i think u should you never no they might be cool with it... the guy i like is 16 and has a yr old son..and since im the youngest in my family i learned frm my sisters mistakes...she kept everything a secrete..then she got cought doing somethin and everything came out ... she was depressed 4ever but shes fine now..so when i found out that the guy i liked he a son i just let my mom no so maybe she would take it a bit easier on me later if/when she finds out more...so the more you hold and the longer u hide the more troble u'll be in if they find out later...and i dont think he was just messin around w- u..u said that u were friends b4 so depends on how good of friends you were...bnut let him make the 1st move next time and if it all works out thats great! good luck!................and i no its been like a mounth since u posted this but i hope everything worked out 4 u...,.