Who do you think of while masturbating?

[nmduipd]

Do you focus on one particular person?

Someone you know or your SO? maybe your ex?

Or is it someone you will never meet?

 

Do you have a favourite fantasy?

[Q10]

I focus on one particular person, but that person usually changes everytime. It's been people I know, and SOs yes..

[PRSOV]

I look at a picture most of the time.

[helpme2]

I think about my husband.

[BrokenWingedFaery]

I think of my grrrlfriend, or sometimes my grrrlfriend and a male friend of mine.

[nmduipd]

I look at a picture most of the time.

What do you mean by 'picture'? An actual image of a naked woman or a movie?

Or a 'real' woman? Or situation?

[PRSOV]

What do you mean by 'picture'? An actual image of a naked woman or a movie?

Or a 'real' woman? Or situation?

 

A real picture of a women, with clothes on...

[nmduipd]

A real picture of a women, with clothes on...

Any particular woman? Or it changes from situation to situation?

(please don't answer this if you feel I'm going too far)

[PRSOV]

Different woman, if you look at the same woman all the time it makes it harder to be aroused and achieve orgasm.

[Q10]

Different woman, if you look at the same woman all the time it makes it harder to be aroused and achieve orgasm.

 

Explain that to your future wife, I'm sure she'd like to hear more about it

 

Howcome you wanna know these nmduipd? any problems?

[PRSOV]

Explain that to your future wife, I'm sure she'd like to hear more about it

 

Howcome you wanna know these nmduipd? any problems?

 

It's different,

 

My ex girlfriend can still arouse me to orgasm, but in general it has to change. That's when you know somewhat you have found a good partner.

[nmduipd]

Explain that to your future wife, I'm sure she'd like to hear more about it

 

Howcome you wanna know these nmduipd? any problems?

Well, I just recently broke up with my long-term bf.

I suppose, I'm trying to distract myself from braking NC and so I'm analysing things. Different things. Possibly things that caused problems in our relationship.

 

Also, after all that happened, when I masturbate, I still think of him

 

I was wondering how it all works for other people.

[Q10]

yup that's normal, I still think of my ex sometimes also. So no problem there, but keep NC!

[AFRIQUE4488]

i imagine when my girlfriend masturbated me (was amazing)!!!! only happened twice!!! LOVED IT in a relationship now and the visuals still come into my head when my boyfriend masturbates me....feel a little guilty but would never cheat on him!! hey orgazms are WOW!!!!!

[Majoraslayer]

In the words of Trekkie Monster from Avenue Q, "the internet is for porn!"

[Dako]

A single person stars in my show.

[Majoraslayer]

A single person stars in my show.

 

I'm flattered

[Dako]

You're always so eager.

[Aurian]

Fantasies never work for me for some reason. Instead I read a good sex scene in a book.

[miserableme]

I never visualize a person. Usually just snipits of things I found really hot, past partners etc. I know someone who calls his "the wank bank".

[timjd]

i usually think about an erotic situation involving a female, combined with a photo of said female. i need the visual bit, otherwise my mind wanders!

[Cardinal]

I used to always visualize the last time I saw someone I knew. A neighbor, someone from my school, whatever. I always imagined fairly detailed encounters.

 

Now I primarily look at pictures or watch videos.

 

When I actually have an orgasm it has become nearly impossible for me to think of anyone other than my g/f, regardless of what picture I might have in front of me. I am getting very accustomed to sharing that moment with her.

[Day_Walker]

Thats the beauty of masturbation because you can think of anything you want at that particular moment. It could be an ex, a current gf or some one you have a crush on or even some one you have never met. I would think that a large portion of men would be fantasizing about the particular porn that they are watching.

[Psylocke960]

Lately, it's just been one person...Oh man, can my imagination run rampant thinking about him!!!

[Majoraslayer]

Thats the beauty of masturbation because you can think of anything you want at that particular moment. It could be an ex, a current gf or some one you have a crush on or even some one you have never met. I would think that a large portion of men would be fantasizing about the particular porn that they are watching.

 

Just make sure not to share that with whoever you're dating. They may not be comfortable with it.