How long is too long?

[rowboat]

Hey all!! You may remember my past posts about a girl who I met, got drunk with made out with, and then a few days later had coffee with (when I had to get my clothes back from her room). So the last time I was her was a week ago today, what I want to know is if it would be too long to give her a call and ask her on another (well first proper) date?

 

I will be truthful with you, it has taken me a week to think about calling her because i was pursuing another lady friend. Yet after talking with her tonight it would appear she has another guy in her sights, or trying to play games that I am not interested in playing. I have also been busy with uni and work, but really I could have found the time to call.

 

Anyway what do you think? too late or not?

[PRSOV]

No! definitely not... What have you got to lose? Nothing

 

Are you saying the girl you are interested in asking on another date has another guy in her sights or the other girl you were thinking about going for?

 

PR

[rowboat]

the other girl that I spent the week after seems to. The one that I am going to call(thanks) doesn't as far as I know.

[PRSOV]

Yeah man, a week is definitely getting there... I would not say it is too late though... who sets deadlines anyway?

 

If she is really keen she won't worry, she'll give it a shot.

[Meow18]

I would say to definitely call. I'm sure she's been waiting all week to hear from you!

 

It's ok to date other people, I mean, until you make a commitment to one girl. But if you are interested in this girl then call her and make a date. Let her know you have been thinking about her since you last went out.

[doyathink]

Go for it!...

[sumguy]

Since all the good advice has been given, I'll leave you with this:

 

What have you got to lose? =P

[Beec]

Go for it. But ask today or tomorrow if you want to ask her out for this weekend.

 

I know of a guy who recently called a woman eight months after their first contact. They have gone out a few times recently.