what do i do?? my bf doesn't seem to care about us anymore

[miticalzz]

so fed up, so want to end things but for some reason i don't. we hardly even talk anymore. he doesn't call me or return my phone calls. when he does answer my calls he very short.

 

phone conversation:

me: so how was your weekend did you do anything fun?

him: the usual

me: so how come you didn't answer my calls?

him: i answer when i'm near the phone if i'm not i don't

me: so maybe i should just stop calling you i seem to piss you off

him: i never said that

me: why so pissed then

him: the usual

me: well i will stop calling if that is what you want

him: i never said anything like that

then a long pause and he says he has to go. he doesn't seem to care one way or the other if i call him or not.so what to i do? should i break up with him? he is being a real * * *.

[flower99]

how long have you been together?

[Daddy Bear]

judging from that sample phone call i can see why he would want to keep them short, no offense. try to make your conversations about something more interesting than why he hasn't called you.

[miticalzz]

so i am boring? i try to talk about stuff and he sounds uninterested all the time.

[flower99]

how long have you two been together? how long has he been like this?

 

You can't make him talk to you. You've tired talking to him & he doesn't seem interested in making conversation. And if you have already addressed this issue with him & still no change.Than yeah move on. Find someone that you can have a real conversation with. Someone who inspires you. best of luck hun

[miticalzz]

he's been acting like this for about 6 months.

[flower99]

6 months is a long time, it sounds as though he may have emtionally separated already.

[Daddy Bear]

outside of these phone calls, how much contact are you guys having at this point?

[mushroom1129]

get rid of him and see if he comes crawling back