Vert Posted June 1, 2006 Author Share Posted June 1, 2006 I did not refer to anal. Anal is not much use to woman and causes homorhoids. You can tease her rosebud though, she'll like that. Please continue that and try to get her through that pee-feeling. Sensitivity depends on her arousal. After vaginal experienced she is easier aroused and she does not understand her stronger feelings and tenses. Leave her clit alone for now. After real orgasm, she will be very tired almost unable to move. You observed this? Please explain to her she should relax and not worry about peeing. She won't and if only a little. Bladder empty better anyway. Takes time, trial and error, sorry. Have fun together Girls here please make suggestions too.. I think I see what you're saying.... Basically have sex with her while not rubbing her clit (from behind, in other words) and then when she's worked up I go around front and eat her out? I have no problem getting through a little pee, but she does have a problem with it as it's "gross" to her. Believe me, it's going to take a very big mental effort for her to get over this... Link to comment
nottoogreen Posted June 1, 2006 Share Posted June 1, 2006 I think I see what you're saying.... Basically have sex with her while not rubbing her clit (from behind, in other words) and then when she's worked up I go around front and eat her out? I have no problem getting through a little pee, but she does have a problem with it as it's "gross" to her. Believe me, it's going to take a very big mental effort for her to get over this... Now you see the problem. Take your time. You are OK together, you have the better part of a century ahead of you. She is OK, leave her clit alone until she want's it. Also perhaps you are too good to her. A clit is very fragile and sensitive. Try light short licks. No chewing! Link to comment
Vert Posted June 1, 2006 Author Share Posted June 1, 2006 Now you see the problem. Take your time. You are OK together, you have the better part of a century ahead of you. She is OK, leave her clit alone until she want's it. Also perhaps you are too good to her. A clit is very fragile and sensitive. Try light short licks. No chewing! I'll give that a try, but like I said before the onus is with her not getting "grossed out" by the pee feeling (or even having some trickle out)... Link to comment
iamteddybearfeelmecuddle Posted June 2, 2006 Share Posted June 2, 2006 Out of curiosity, do you menfolk ever actually pay attention to what women *SAY* they like?? Because judging from this thread, the answer would be a decided "NO". Link to comment
Vert Posted June 2, 2006 Author Share Posted June 2, 2006 teddy, I constantly ask my wife what she likes and what feels good, but she's very much an internist by nature and will not voice those feelings during sex or prior to. This is also the norm in daily life as she doesn't like to give direct statements but rather "hints" or vague references 24/7... *sigh* women... Anyway, last night my wife agreed to let me try to pleasure her orally again, and we placed a towel beneath her to ease her fears of getting any "liquid" on the bed. She built up slowly and any time that she felt like "going" I would simply play with her lips or do something other than bother her clit. After a while she lost the pee sensation and her orgasm sensation took over, and finally she climaxed bigtime. I was so happy, but she was saying it took too long (she tends to care too much about what other people *might* be thinking of her which obviously in this case wasn't true). We then promptly had sex and she said she was extemely turned on at that point I should also say that earlier in the day she came while riding me in bed, and it was so hard and so intense that she actually cried a bit. When I asked her if she was ok she simply said she didn't know why she cried a little other than it was very intense and emotional (we hadn't had sex in 2 days and she hadn't came in about 3). Any other women have this happen? Link to comment
nottoogreen Posted June 2, 2006 Share Posted June 2, 2006 teddy, I constantly ask my wife what she likes and what feels good, but she's very much an internist by nature and will not voice those feelings during sex or prior to. This is also the norm in daily life as she doesn't like to give direct statements but rather "hints" or vague references 24/7... *sigh* women... Also few women voice major dissatisfaction like being unable to orgasm, some even simulate. In the end women hurt themselves because their man does not learn and to add injury to insult goes bragging with the boys. By age 3x it get's very frustrating. Some get fat from sweets, others turn just cold and the circle closes and the guy get's frustrated with her... Link to comment
nottoogreen Posted June 2, 2006 Share Posted June 2, 2006 Woah, You did it together, CONGRATULATIONS, yes first time they sometimes cry, this is normal they are just soooo happy. Now you can tease her she could learn to pee more Link to comment
Vert Posted June 2, 2006 Author Share Posted June 2, 2006 Woah, You did it together, CONGRATULATIONS, yes first time they sometimes cry, this is normal they are just soooo happy. Now you can tease her she could learn to pee more She's had plenty of O's (she can cum easily while riding me) so it wasn't because of her "first time" but rather I guess she'd just been under stress at work and having a huge O was satisfying. Link to comment
nottoogreen Posted June 2, 2006 Share Posted June 2, 2006 She's had plenty of O's (she can cum easily while riding me) so it wasn't because of her "first time" but rather I guess she'd just been under stress at work and having a huge O was satisfying. She is learning to overcome her pee-feeling and that was her first g-spot orgasm (she riding you) and there will be better ones and she may cry some more but eventualy the crying will stop. Dunno why. Girls, your comment please Link to comment
leyla_h Posted June 2, 2006 Share Posted June 2, 2006 Hey there, I had the same problem when my bf started to go down on me. I found it was worse when he concentrated just by my opening, where the urethra is. It helped to go slowly and stop for a bit when it got overwhelming. Obviously this helped a bit for you when you tried. What also helped was to make sure I went before we started and then squeezed the muscles down there to stop the feeling for a while. Relaxing about it also helped because I realised that its the same muscles working around there and so the feeling was inevitable when I was relaxing and muscles were contracting around there. You might want to tell her this. After a while, it does start to go away, especially as you stop thinking about it and then the pleasure takes over. The towel thing you did probably helped as she stopped thinking about what would happen if she did urinate. Even more distractions might be more effective. Hope it works out for you. Link to comment
Jonboy582 Posted June 4, 2006 Share Posted June 4, 2006 The squirting part is a myth as there is no physical means to squirt (and no purpose). Here is some erronous info link removed. Whenever a woman experiences a g-spot orgasm, she discharges several cc of of milky/creamy liquid which is used to influence sperm traveling toward the uterus/ovaries. Acidic>girl. Alcaline>Boy. I taste this often during oral sex or when cleaning her up after intercourse (mixed with my own). slightlybent: I don't spill ... She also may release small amounts of pee, but not often. This may also be related to the fullness of the bladder but I am not sure. As to movie performances, I have observed women being able to open water bootles, smoke cigarettes, shoot baloons and clamp ones member rather well by way of PC muscle exercise. Shooting liquid from the vagina for the movie would be no problem. I am sorry but squirting is not a myth. Just watch some porn movies. Somehow I dont think they are releasing fake fluids OR its added by special effects (as they are too low budget). I have just done a little research and if you don't believe me go to link removed and get some of the free video clips. ITS A PORN SITE SO UNDER 18s or 21 in some US states dont go there. There may be evidence against it, but nothing has disproved it as they said they do not know. And it would be ignorant to believe everything on wikipedia is true as it could be written by anyone. I mean I could put my own article on there and refer to scientists that may or may not exist and it would be put up and believed by millions even if untrue. Link to comment
nottoogreen Posted June 6, 2006 Share Posted June 6, 2006 Hi Jonboy, On porn sites squrting is not a myth - only there. You see, there is no benefit to nature by squirting from the urethrea or vagina. So, there is "no hardware" to do that. There however are girls which can control muscles better. I've seen belly dancers which can walk coins on their tummy. I'v seen live shows where girls use their vaginal muscles to do all kinds of things as mentioned in my earlier post. I had sex with one of those girls. It is amzaing how well they can clamp! To squirt, all you need is 1 soft plastic bottle 100cc with a plastic hose extending to the vaginal opening filled with some low viscosity liquid. Then ask her squeeze... Cheap enough? Link to comment
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