mysteryman Posted May 24, 2006 Share Posted May 24, 2006 Is ignoring someone as bad as I think it is?.. Here's the backstory if you want . But anyhow this girl is ignoring me on an instant messenger. And I think I have a chance with her but it's just really demoralizing. I wana try and ask her out but it scares me. We hadn't talked for months on it and than we talked some in person (read the history if you want it all). And talked one night on an IM and for about a week and a half she has been ignoring me?... She has had computer problems in the past but I dunno. Thanks Mysteryman Link to comment
Budman Posted May 24, 2006 Share Posted May 24, 2006 if she's ignoring you its bad. I hate to say it bucko, but move on. Its better for your sanity, and sake. Link to comment
Blue Skittles Posted May 24, 2006 Share Posted May 24, 2006 I dunno, you can't really trust anything from IM. I leave my IM on all day all the time but I'm hardly ever sitting at the computer. So I miss a lot of messages. Its not that I am ignoring people. Have you tried calling her? If you call her and she doesn't return your call then yes she is ignoring you. Link to comment
robowarrior Posted May 24, 2006 Share Posted May 24, 2006 Stop beating a dead horse. When a girl puts you on 'ignore' its over. Link to comment
mysteryman Posted May 24, 2006 Author Share Posted May 24, 2006 Nope not in the whole time I've known her. I have both her cell and house number. I was actually planning on tomorrow trying her cell. And see if she would like to go and grab a bite to eat with a couple friends of mine. And I'm not on her ignore list if thats what you mean. Link to comment
nottoogreen Posted May 24, 2006 Share Posted May 24, 2006 Nope not in the whole time I've known her. I have both her cell and house number. I was actually planning on tomorrow trying her cell. And see if she would like to go and grab a bite to eat with a couple friends of mine. And I'm not on her ignore list if thats what you mean. Call her, ask her out and come back here if it did not work Link to comment
bhzmafia Posted May 24, 2006 Share Posted May 24, 2006 Just ask her out - at least you wont regret it for years to come. What do you have to lose? Link to comment
Dating Coach Posted May 24, 2006 Share Posted May 24, 2006 If she was really interested in you, if she was excited about the idea of dating you, she would make some sort of effort to be around you or contact you. If this isn't happening, or worse-if the opposite is happening, then quit being dense and take a hint. Link to comment
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