so i turned down sex.....

[dragonzeyez]

ofcourse not, i would go nuts if i could never have sex again lol. i just want it with the right person is all i mean and not right away in the relationship. eventually any girl i get with i want it with.

 

also, if i were to have sex with someone i didnt care for, it would just make me much more lonely because i would want it more and more, and it would probably be a long time before having it again so i find i would rather be patient, lol.

[MacGyverRI]

You're lucky dude, you'll find the right girl. As for Incels like me, finding a girl full stop is never going to happen.

 

That's why I'm already planning on seeing an escort, it's more than just sex, it's the intamacy, the giving and recieving of physical touch which I've been starved of for all of my life.

 

What is an Incels?

 

Hookers really don't do physical touch, they just let you use them.

[dragonzeyez]

You're lucky dude, you'll find the right girl. As for Incels like me, finding a girl full stop is never going to happen.

 

That's why I'm already planning on seeing an escort, it's more than just sex, it's the intamacy, the giving and recieving of physical touch which I've been starved of for all of my life.

 

tellmewhatsyourflava man, try this out

 

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or

 

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i am serious dude, make a profile, browse and email a few girls, be patient and try it out!! i have been using it for a few months and have actually met some girls this way, infact lavalife was how i met the girl i am talking about in this post. although i have not yet found a match i do think it has so far been fairly successful. give it a shot!!

[dragonzeyez]

infact, if any girls in michigan, usa post here, here is my profile

 

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[MacGyverRI]

so does anyone know what an "incels" is??

 

seems someone went invisable again...

[CharLit]

Yay Dragonzeyez! I'm glad you're a great guy, that she understood, and hope you have many happy times together ahead of you!

 

 

 

Good for you. If she is acting that way, than I would personally forget about her. My guess is that she felt rejected and many women (i'm clarifying many and not ALL beforehand before some get on my case) don't take well to being rejected. She is probably used to guys being all up on her. I'm sure she has rejected guys left and right in her day. But when she offered and you turned her down (you know had the tables turned on her), she might not have been able to handle it. I'm surprised she didn't get all mad and say something insulting about you, or towards you lol. So, perhaps she has a better personality than what I described above.

 

That is what my guess would be.

 

LOL Tiredman, I guess you've noticed a lot of women react badly to your posts if you're adding disclaimers Taking this post as an example, the reason a lot of women get offended is not the implication that you're stating some universal truth (you quite clearly say you're not), but your reasoning about WHY some women act the way they do. It comes accross here as if you're saying that some women can't handle rejection because they feel that it is somehow "owed" to them that every guy they meet is falling over himself to get them in the sack. You even say you'd dump a woman because she was upset about being rejected.

 

Yep, a lot of women handle physical rejection badly, but the thought process behind it is not usually "What a bastard, how dare he not have sex with me, I am a sex goddess and I deserve it!" It will be something along the lines of "Oh my god, I KNEW my thighs had gotten bigger! I'm absolutely disgusting... and is that a pimple on my butt!?!? I must stop eating for three months and then hopefully I won't be such a monster anymore!"

 

Most of us would be thrilled to meet a man with standards like dragonzeyez, and would be really happy to wait and build up the relationship - but only if they actually told us why they didn't want to have sex yet. If he just didn't want to have sex with us without telling us why, most of us would think

 

a) I'm hideous

b) he doesn'y like me and I'm going to get the "i don't think we should see each other again" phonecall tomorrow

c) I wonder if I can live on celery for a year?

d) I'm going to die old and alone (possibly from overconsumption of celery) and will be found half eaten by alsations three weeks later (ok, I stole that one from Bridget Jones

 

Let Dragonzeyez story be a lesson to everyone: communication is KEY!!

[CharLit]

Oh, and MacGyverRI, I did a google:

 

Incels = involuntary celibacy

[doyathink]

You are a genius, this speaks volumes!! Very goooood!