Help!!??

[isaan70]

This is my 1st post, so will try not to ramble.....recenlty had my heart broken, my ex moved back home after we were together for 7 months. He broke it off w/me, said to toxic. Well, in any event I had a crazy weekend & unfortunatley ended up bringing this 1 guy home, whom works w/my gfriend..turns out she was interested in him & was very upset w/me. We were able to work it out between us. On Sunday night my gfriend & I went to a bbq & then went to meet up w/this guy & his friend. I was pretty intoxicated & his friend & I hit it off to the point next thing I knew we left our respective friends together & hopped in a cab back to his place. Spent the night & whole day w/him. He took my #, said he would call last night & have not heard from him (typical I guess) which I found really strange as I was there till 7PM cuddling on his couch w/him.....so I know I deserve this, but I gather he spoke to his friend, found out what happened between us & will not be calling....actually really interested in him & feel like I shot myself in th efoot for meeting his friend 1st..in any event he programmed my # into his phone & called me before I left so I would have his. part of me wants to cotnact him as I feel like an_________ &* don't want to run into him out of the blue...any suggestions??

[Tigris]

If it'll make you feel better then go ahead and do it.

 

Let me know what happens.

[isaan70]

I think I will wait till tomorrowtocontacthim,when I do, should I mention anything about his friend 2 evenings ago????

[Tigris]

You're not dating either of them so I don't see it as being any of his business that you met his friend. If he asks you a question then answer it.

 

Good luck

[isaan70]

Well, I called him & he was busy but he did contact me the next day as he said so & we went out last wednesday....had a great time, he left my place late & called when he arrived home to say he regretted having to go....

 

He called me on last Friday & we made arrangements to hook up later on after a concert he went to. I met up w/a bunch of my gfriends after the show for drinks & 1 gfriend was talking about a cute guy she met & she had his #. I put 2 & 2 together, saw the phone # turns out it was him!!!!!!!!! He called me a bit later & hooked up w/me & my gfriends....look on his face was priceless, now we're not even "dating" or anything, so it didn't really bug me (ecspecially having been w/his good friend), he kept apologizing all night, but I know he is a pretty outgoing person, so I told him not to worry. He spent the evening w/me, we have great conversations, he's told me a bunch of stuff that he heasn't revealed to anyone & has said that I'm the 1st woman he feels really comfortable talking to. sex was great, he left the next afternoon & said to call him later. so I did, he hwasn't sure what he was going to do as he had to work next morning & I told him to call me later. Well, after a couple drinks w/friends at 12:30 I called & just ended up leaving a message..that's it - so question is he appears very interested when we have spent time together (public hand holding, arm around the waist, loves to cuddle in bed etc) now what?? do I just wait for him to call & not call him again????

[Tigris]

I think you should wait for him to call you. I know it's difficult but try and be patient.

 

It sounds like you're having a great time. I thought it was brilliant when you recognised his phone number. hehehe. It's a pity you didn't have a camera, the look on his face would've been priceless!

[perfect]

yeah if u want him go thats simple why the need to suffer . dont take too much time

[isaan70]

yep, the look on his face was awesome.......I really have nothing to complain about as just met him etc. but hopefully my gfriend won't call him - you never know.

 

This is all "new" to me again, having just gotten out of a relationship awhile ago (he keeps asking me to marry him) I forgot how it can be, like sitting on pins & needles... so basically I can't call him at this point??? My bday is coming up on the weekend, would like to see him - UGH I hate this....

[Tigris]

Well in that case invite him for your birthday!