isaan70
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I just had time to glance quickly through all the posts, one thing that struck me is her age & your age difference. Maybe she feels that you are being like a "parent" figure?? Not that that should excuse her behaviour, but I remember how I was at that age........you can imagine the rest.
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you're so right Acro, this is a problem I have, I get so caught up in the experiance I just end up shooting myuself in the foot all the time..... Next time take it way slower, just I'm in my prime rigth now (36) so is hard to operate from the head as opposed to the libido
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God, if only it were that easy, still can't stop thinking about him and feeling horrible about being "duped"............ must not call must not call must not call....... why is it always the bad ones we want?? I should lose his number or never respond to him again.. Oh yeah, my girlfriend ran into him at our local right by my place that Sunday, nice guy.
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That's what I was in for at 1st, but then he was the most I've"hung out" with in that manner since my ex. I guess it's played w/my head,I would be OK w/that, I just can't stand when you feel like - or well when I started to like him - & he appeared on the same page, that he would just take off like that, not come back or call. I am the only one to blame, I allowed this to happen & jumped right in, no boundries, & let him come & go as he please. It hurts, but I am the to blame, or trusted. BTW - when he was leaving the last time, I knew he wasn't coming back. & to think I actually was concerned that he was hurt. It turns out my friend ran into him yesterday down at a patio 1 block away from where I live w/his buddy. WHAT WAS I THINKING??? & what do I do when he does call or I see him again?
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Yes it happened Saturday evening, I did explain to him why I missed his call to let him in as I was asleep, & he did come back for a bit thereafter. However he had to leave for what he said woul dbe 15/20 minutes & to call himif he wasn't back by then. I left a message that evening and yesterday and no answer and no call form him. Feel so jaded. Want to call again but that would be crazy!?????
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I have spent the last 2 weeks with one guy in paticular, the most time I have spent with a man since my ex dumped me 4 months ago. We hooked up at a party, had a great time together and he ended up renting us a suite w/hot tub etc for those 2 nights in a row. didn't see him till I ran into him the next weekend, but the same thing we hung out at my place for 2 nights, spent the whole time together. Felt comfortable enough to leave him sleeping while I went off to work. Thought we had an instant connection. He called & we spent the next Thursday/Friday together and then hooked up early Saturday morn - I was still at it from the evening before. He had to leave for a bit later that night & I went to take a shower, which I promptly fell asleep in so needless to say I missed his call to let him back in (coded lock on the main door). When I got up I called, he came by, he grabbed something he left & said he woul dbe back soon. I even gave him the code. Well I guess he's upset as he never returned. I left 2 VM's & NADA from him. This is very confusung becasue I felt he shared a lot with me in our time together and really clicked. I am just dumbfounded and feel like such a fool as I was getting to like him. What do I do if he does call or if I bump into him - & when will I ever learn for that matter, haven't felt this hurt in a long time.
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WOW - thanks everyone, it makes me feel better to see everyones' view point, & I feel that I was perhaps being ridiculous....we have so much in common (I'm a Mediator, he's a Lawyer) & he is very youthful...will defintley give him a ring wehn I get home from work tonight....wish me luck & will keep you posted if any new developments - he's taking me to a bbq/pool party w/bands this Thursday night, so looking forward to that & we may do golfing & his lake - way better then just sitting in a pub/patio all the time.
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LOL - your so correct - I will see what happens - kind of feel like for the 1st time in my life I can be really who I am around him & it doesn't phase him at all....he's so full of life...
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"Just because he's older, it doesn't mean he'll need 24/7 attention in 5-10 years. I mean if he managed to party till 4am, and he didn't need to stop to get his oxygen tank, then I think you're ok. We all know there are vibrant older people and then we also know there are people who start having health problems in their 50s and as they age, are unable to do physical things like they used to."
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I totally see everyones point & never thought that age would matter to me, however, I am not sure if I can get past it - I mean 10 years down the road I would be like his nurse!! Maybe just casual friendship for now, he knows I am grappling with this issue, but I have such a great time with him. yesterday I met him at 5 PM out for drinks after work & we parted at 4 AM, crazy - don't know where he gets his energy from.........if only he were...........
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I appreciate your responses, it is kind of starnge because his son is a contempory of mine (I'm a bit older) & it was a little weird taking him to my friend's place last night, but all my guy friends knew him (due to his son). Guess I would need to focus on what do I want in life - cause if it's children, don't really think that would be happening w/him..........
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would love people's opinion, recently single & have spent soem time w/a man who is 59 & I am 36..........he's handsome, loves to have fun, has a wicked job (similar to my field) & we have a lot in common, however, I just not sure if this could work, he knows this, & if anyting we will remain friends - but what do you think - he will be on his way to retirement while I am just getting started
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I am recently single and have been finding that a lot of men are approaching me latley for the same thing and the majority of them all have girlfriends!! What gives with that??
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yep, the look on his face was awesome.......I really have nothing to complain about as just met him etc. but hopefully my gfriend won't call him - you never know. This is all "new" to me again, having just gotten out of a relationship awhile ago (he keeps asking me to marry him) I forgot how it can be, like sitting on pins & needles... so basically I can't call him at this point??? My bday is coming up on the weekend, would like to see him - UGH I hate this....
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Well, I called him & he was busy but he did contact me the next day as he said so & we went out last wednesday....had a great time, he left my place late & called when he arrived home to say he regretted having to go.... He called me on last Friday & we made arrangements to hook up later on after a concert he went to. I met up w/a bunch of my gfriends after the show for drinks & 1 gfriend was talking about a cute guy she met & she had his #. I put 2 & 2 together, saw the phone # turns out it was him!!!!!!!!! He called me a bit later & hooked up w/me & my gfriends....look on his face was priceless, now we're not even "dating" or anything, so it didn't really bug me (ecspecially having been w/his good friend), he kept apologizing all night, but I know he is a pretty outgoing person, so I told him not to worry. He spent the evening w/me, we have great conversations, he's told me a bunch of stuff that he heasn't revealed to anyone & has said that I'm the 1st woman he feels really comfortable talking to. sex was great, he left the next afternoon & said to call him later. so I did, he hwasn't sure what he was going to do as he had to work next morning & I told him to call me later. Well, after a couple drinks w/friends at 12:30 I called & just ended up leaving a message..that's it - so question is he appears very interested when we have spent time together (public hand holding, arm around the waist, loves to cuddle in bed etc) now what?? do I just wait for him to call & not call him again????