Bret Posted May 14, 2006 Share Posted May 14, 2006 so my girlfriend and i have been together for like 5 months this past month we had unprotected sex about 10 times..each time i pulled out and let it go on her stomach..but now she is 5 days late on her period...2 days ago she took a pregnancy test and it came up negative...im young AHHH need some advice..is it gonna be okay? is it natural for a late period? Link to comment
NKP Posted May 14, 2006 Share Posted May 14, 2006 yes it is. just wait a few more days and if she stil hasnt got it try the test again Link to comment
Batya33 Posted May 14, 2006 Share Posted May 14, 2006 As i hope you know pulling out is not an effecctive form of birth control. Why not use a condom and spermicide or some other form of birth control if you do not feel prepared to marry her and be a father to your child? Link to comment
Tigris Posted May 14, 2006 Share Posted May 14, 2006 My Mother and Father used that method when they got married and I arrived 9 months later! I hope to God she's not pregnant? Use a condom in future. Link to comment
Bret Posted May 14, 2006 Author Share Posted May 14, 2006 yeh we werent being very smart..is it likely that she is?i think tomorrow night ill get her another one so she can try it in the morning...and no im not ready to be a father..otherwise i wouldnt be running around on a random message board for help..financially it will be a burden..and she is a pastors daughter..that will be a hurdle for her father..and im catholic! Link to comment
AntiLove_SuperStar Posted May 14, 2006 Share Posted May 14, 2006 Please to GOD use birth control from now on, you can even get condoms free from young peoples' sexual health clinics..you can also enjoy sex more if you can relax about a much lower chance of pregnancy. Link to comment
kellbell Posted May 14, 2006 Share Posted May 14, 2006 As others pointed out...the pull out method is not a form of birth control. Have her take a test in a few days. Stress, diet, age, hormonal changes can also delay a woman's period. How old is she? Have her get on birth control once you confirm in fact that she is not pregnant. If she has no insurance, does not want her parents to find out, or can not afford it, she can look in the yellow pages and check for clinics such as Planned Parenthood. It is not worth this kind of stress and aggrivation. As the old saying goes..."what do you call couples whom use the pull-out method...? Parents! Good luck and take care. Link to comment
Bret Posted May 14, 2006 Author Share Posted May 14, 2006 shes 20..im 19..i hope shes not pregnant =( Link to comment
Batya33 Posted May 14, 2006 Share Posted May 14, 2006 What is your reasoning for not using birth control if you do not want to be a father? Link to comment
Ians Mommy Posted May 15, 2006 Share Posted May 15, 2006 My advice is to wait a few more days and take another test. But then it might also be late because she's worried about it. and also, if she does get on birth control if she's not, make sure that you use a condom too. I was on the pill and still got pregnant. Plus, I know what it's like to be young and pregnant.. I'm almost 18 weeks pregnant and I'm only 16. Link to comment
CharLit Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 Hi Bret, What the others said Use condoms at the very least, preferably have her get on birth control pills too!! Other than that though, I don't think you need to be worried, those tests are very accurate. A lot of possible reasons for late periods have already been given by others. Though most women are quite regular, my cycle and that of many other women can vary by three or four days every month. Stress like a pregnancy scare or upcoming exams have made it up to two weeks late in the past. hope all is well, C Link to comment
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