Miss Her

[khujo56]

Hi

 

It' s been about 1 month since we ended it, and there has been no contact since but i miss her so much. I'm always thinking what she is doing. I tempted to call her to say what's up but i know that will do no good. I really fell for her and i really liked her but she can only offer friendship at this time, but she decided not to be friends. I feel like i let this one slip away. I really have the urge to call her, just to hear her voice

[blender]

I don't know your whole story, but please, try not to call... it won't leave you feeling better. I know you want the "fix" of hearing her voice, but like any drug that does not "agree" with you, it will only make you feel worse after. I hope you do know that these feelings you have will pass in time, sometimes it just takes awhile, and we let our minds go to a "what if?" place, well it's better to stay in "what IS". Even if it hurts like hell, have the self respect to let go for today, just one day at a time.. You never know what the future holds, and you might not even see the wonderful things ahead, if you keep looking back.

[Frost271]

It hurts. It really does. My gf broke up with me last month after 4 years.

 

I have that nasty feeling in my stomach almost everyday and all day. I still cant eat right. I still dream about her and think about her 24/7. Its very painful and life plain sux.

 

You'll here this again and again but it takes time to get over them.

 

I suggest you also read Super Daves post in the other forum about things NOT TO DO in regards to reconciling with your ex.

[blemished]

I know how you feel, I feel the same way. Life sucks. And I'm not getting any younger. The pain just wastes time, wastes my life.