CtinaDitty Posted April 17, 2006 Share Posted April 17, 2006 Hey everyone! Okay here's my issue: There's this guy in my gym class and I like him obviously. I'm always in the gym before he is and I'm sitting on the floor. And everytime he walks by me he'll brush me or "accidentally" bump into me or just touch me in some physical way. Whenever he sees me outside of gym he'll wave at me or flip my ponytail or w/e. We talk a lot and compete in gym, and he's also very complimentary. He's the only guy I know who calls me Christina or Chrissy, everyone else calls me by my last name. He talks about me outside of class and comes to my HS Varsity soccer games to watch me play and cheer me on... It seems we flirt a lot, and my friends think so too. I just, idk... Maybe he's just being nice... Idk, I like him... What should I do. Link to comment
aggierocker Posted April 17, 2006 Share Posted April 17, 2006 Ask him out for coffee, duh. Link to comment
CtinaDitty Posted April 17, 2006 Author Share Posted April 17, 2006 Well, I don't want to make the first move.. Maybe he's not doing anything is because he's a senior and i'm a junior and he's going away to college soon. Idk... Do you think he likes me? And I don't like coffee. haha Link to comment
CtinaDitty Posted April 17, 2006 Author Share Posted April 17, 2006 Oh, and I forgot to mention that he'll be like, "You know you love me Christina" And I'm all jokingly like "Oh, you know it!, lol" we do that kind of stuff too.. Link to comment
coollady1957 Posted April 17, 2006 Share Posted April 17, 2006 Sounds like more than just being nice to me. If a guy were doing that with me, and I were in your shoes, I would certainly feel that he liked me and was flirting. Ask him if he would like to get together and do something outside of school and sports. Link to comment
aggierocker Posted April 17, 2006 Share Posted April 17, 2006 So what, make the most of the time you have left with him. Its not like we're going to live forever. People come and go. Link to comment
coollady1957 Posted April 17, 2006 Share Posted April 17, 2006 Whats wrong with making the first move? Does not mean you have to get serious. You two could still go out and have fun even if he is going off to college soon. Link to comment
CtinaDitty Posted April 17, 2006 Author Share Posted April 17, 2006 I know. I mean, I've made the first move before, not with him though, but it's just odd. Idk. I know I'm sounding impossible, lol, sorry for that too. It jsut seems soo right to be with him. Link to comment
aggierocker Posted April 17, 2006 Share Posted April 17, 2006 I love it when the girls make the first move on me. It so turns me on. Link to comment
CtinaDitty Posted April 17, 2006 Author Share Posted April 17, 2006 haha, I'm just afraid, he'll say no... Say you were him, and you were giving me all of these signals, would you like it if a girl would ask you out? Or why aren't they asking the girl out? Guys are sooo confusing, lol. Link to comment
aggierocker Posted April 17, 2006 Share Posted April 17, 2006 why aren't they asking the girl out? Maybe he's afraid of rejection(like you lol) -most likely Maybe he isn't into you -my main reason most of the times, I'll be nice to girls. Pay attention, and see if he treats other girls the same. Maybe he's not looking for anyone right now -is he in a relationship? Maybe he's gay -you never know Maybe he's shy -doubt it Link to comment
CtinaDitty Posted April 17, 2006 Author Share Posted April 17, 2006 I'm definitely sure he's not gay, lol, and he's not in a relationship... He's not shy. But why would you flirt with someone soo much and do it just to "be nice"? I saw another post you posted and it was kinda typical to what a boy would say. Idk... NO offense, I'm just saying... Link to comment
aggierocker Posted April 17, 2006 Share Posted April 17, 2006 I'm socialable, so I'm nice. Plus I'm just practicing my game. Yes, it sounds harsh, and thats why you need to pay attention and see if he is nice to other girls like he is to you. If its all you, then it's reason #1. He's afraid of rejection. What did I say? God you got me wondering now. Link to comment
CtinaDitty Posted April 17, 2006 Author Share Posted April 17, 2006 It was in a reply to "boob size'' How you'd take a look and tell someone.. jUst kinda typical... lol Link to comment
aggierocker Posted April 17, 2006 Share Posted April 17, 2006 I'm a good judge of breasts. I can tell if one boob is bigger than the other or if you've got breast cancer. Link to comment
mysteryman Posted April 17, 2006 Share Posted April 17, 2006 He may be shy?.. A lot of guys including myself are. And I say go for it, it's always a breathe of fresh air when the girl goes first. Link to comment
heythere1234 Posted April 17, 2006 Share Posted April 17, 2006 I have your answer. Don't ask him out. Call his bluff. Next time you all are teasing and joking, say something to him like...I think you have a crush on me! Why don't you just get it over with and ask me out? you'll feel better. This way you haven't asked him out. but in a light hearted way you've opened the door for him to do so!! And if he doesn't ask you out, then it's ok, you can just play it off like you were just joking! Link to comment
heythere1234 Posted April 17, 2006 Share Posted April 17, 2006 I'm a good judge of breasts. I can tell if one boob is bigger than the other or if you've got breast cancer. LOL! ever hear of TMI?? Link to comment
aggierocker Posted April 17, 2006 Share Posted April 17, 2006 LOL! ever hear of TMI?? Ever hear of THO? Link to comment
BlueWolf Posted April 17, 2006 Share Posted April 17, 2006 Guys are sooo confusing, lol. Anyway, ask him out. Casually. Link to comment
CtinaDitty Posted April 18, 2006 Author Share Posted April 18, 2006 So it seems as if everyone's pointing towards me asking him out... I really like "Heythere1234"'s answer. It was a really good one. Because we always teez eachother like that so, that could work, haha. Link to comment
AnotherBrokenDoll Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 Come on you can do it! It does sound more then just being nice! I wish you luck! Link to comment
CtinaDitty Posted April 19, 2006 Author Share Posted April 19, 2006 So, y'all really think he is flirting with me and likes me?? Link to comment
CtinaDitty Posted April 19, 2006 Author Share Posted April 19, 2006 and that I should go for it? The thing is... we're in the same gym class right? And I see him every day and he has a lot of friends that I know... And he talks about me outside class. And what if he says no, then he'd prolly tell someone and it'd get around my gym class and I don't want that if he says no... Link to comment
BlueWolf Posted April 19, 2006 Share Posted April 19, 2006 Shouldn't be afraid of anything. Imagine how much you would care if that happened to someone else. You wouldn't. If he talks [good I assume] about you outside of class, it is a good sign. Follow your interests. Your interest right now is to get him to go out with you. Do everything possible for that to happen. Focus on that, and only that. Simplify things and cut out the details. All you want is for you two to go out with each other. Forget everything else and go for it. Link to comment
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