confusion

[dj_sugar]

for the past 3 months i have been interstate for work related reasons i still call my girlfriend and talk to her all the time my closest mates are always with her and they tell me everything.

 

a couple of weeks ago one of my best mates made out with my girlfriend.

 

i found out on friday

although another one of my mates had told me previously that he thought this had happened when i asked her about it she threw a tantram and denied it.

then on friday she came right out and told me and that she was sorry and all that.

she has now ordered that we go on a break until i fly back in ( which is the 26th april)

 

she says she still loves me and wants to be with me but she wants " freedom" my understanding of it is she wants to go out and have other guys do things to her that only i should be doing considering we are in a realationship but she says no?

 

i dont know what to do.... i hate my best mate and my girlfriend i dont know.... but what if i do return and the thought that she had a fling with a mate a close mate just wont let me feel the same way even though i am head over heels in love with her.

 

we have been together for close to 3 years now if that helps

[DN]

She ordered (ordered!!! ) a break so she can make out with other guys and then claim it is ok because you are on a break.

 

In your place I would order a break-up.

[dj_sugar]

she rang this morning to say happy easter baby.

she said that she could end the break when ever she wanted it didnt have to go for the full two weeks i just had to "behave"

in other words treat her like a princess and pretend nothing ever happened.

im sorry but this sucks.

[DN]

she rang this morning to say happy easter baby.

she said that she could end the break when ever she wanted it didnt have to go for the full two weeks i just had to "behave"

in other words treat her like a princess and pretend nothing ever happened.

im sorry but this sucks.

 

If you have any self-respect at all - tell her to get lost.

[fishrrshortae]

I'd tell her to get bent..

[Momene]

Time to move on. I think she's playing you along and tell your mate he's welcome to her but not to be surprised if she does it to him.