hey i need some really good ideas for a second(ish) date

[robzombie]

hey every1 me and my first gf just became "official"

 

let me just say i do tend to get nervious with these types of things, and when i finally asked her out she wanted to know what took so long, lol

 

we went on a first date b4 we became "official", which was a double date to a movie. that went well, but now i need another idea for a second date this weekend. I wanna do it soon because we both like eachother but its like were still not quite comfortable around eachother... our conversations usually lag and can be kinda awkward (is this normal?); i want to create something stronger with her soon before the spark dies, if that makes any sense.

 

so any ideas to make being around eachother less awkward, and make our relationship more solid, and most impportantly, for a good second date ?! (i dont wanna go to another movie,

[the yang to the worlds yin]

one thing i've learned, is just let things flow and enjoy the relationship as it progresses. but if you want to be romantic, you could always order her favorite food or something, have it delivered ( chinese is cheap) and then put it on some pretty plates, and sit accross from each other by a candlelight while having dinner and talking. it may help you both to get to know each other a bit more.

[Scout]

A hike? A game of tennis? Golf? Something you know how to do, but she doesn't, and you can show her? And vice versa...

 

I've found dates like that end up in a lot of laughter. Which always breaks the ice.

[NJRon]

definitely want to go somewhere you can talk. Bowling, skating, coffee, etc.

[chai714]

NJ has some good suggestions.

 

You don't need to impress her or spend lots of cash because both will die fast and hard. Wherever you go, just make sure to concentrate on making her feel good about herself. That's all it really comes down to. This simple principle goes such a long ways, but most people ignore it.

[racharama]

if you go anywhere open all doors! (entrance and cars) OMG, My heart melts when a car door is opened for me!

[justjennybc]

Go somewhere you can interact with each other. You could go to a bowling alley, an arcade, an amusement park if you live near one. It's easier to find things to talk about in those kind of settings too.