meeting girls

[stratguy620]

I've always been a really shy guy, and I have a hard time meeting girls. Anyone know of some good places to meet girls? Also, anyone know of a decent free dating site?

[RIPDIME]

I am really shy as well but think of what you or her interest are. For me I play guitar and she is learning so I am going to ask her if she wants me to teach her. You could ask her to a movie, but maybe something like want to go downtown to stores or just find out what her interests are and then decide from there.

[stratguy620]

No, I mean just actually meeting girls. I'm actually pretty good with girls once I've gotten to know them. I just don't know where to meet girls, and what exactly to say to them when I do...

[RIPDIME]

Ok, how old are you and do you go to school, college etc?

[Andy223]

You wana know where to meet women?

 

EVERYWHERE... anywhere you can think of.

 

Ill give you some bad examples of where to start conversation with women

 

- When a women is at a night club, she is expecting to get hit on, so she will put up her defences. In a place like this, all the guys she sees will want to hit on her tonight, and you are going to have a hard time getting anywhere. (A great way i found, is to make friends with some girls, get to know them, then invite them to night clubs) You will be amazed at how much they will lower their defences around you.

 

- Try to think of places "normal places" such as check-out lines, stores. Places like this, women arnt expecting to get hit on by some randy guys.

[Down-In-A-Hole]

I've used link removed with great success. However, it isn't free - it's around 30 bucks a month.

 

Free dating sites usually aren't the best option because you get a lot more people that aren't that serious about dating (since they aren't losing anything). When people pay to be on a date site, they tend to be more motivated to find a lasting/meaningful relationship.

 

Why don't you save up 30 bucks and become a member to see how you like it? If you write up an honest profile and put some good pictures of yourself up there, I'll be you'll get some dates before a month is over.

 

Good luck.

[Msnak]

I did link removed, and a few other sites. Online dating is a way to get more exposure, I would say.

 

But other places to meet women--depending on your age/interest:

1. dance classes (mostly women go)

2. book stores

3. the gym

4. the mall

5. church

6. comedy clubs, lounges

7. ice skating rinks

[NR498E]

I started taking a yoga class at my gym.The ratio in there is like 30 to 1.

[bobster]

Why not join a drama group? It will build your confidence, most people are shy when they join a drama group so its really expected by existing members. If there are no women involved (which I very much doubt) then become friends with any guys there. Lots of guys have female friends and you could get to know some that way too.