Finally...

[Raven44]

Well ... Ive finally gotten to the point where I can see my ex without wanting to burst into tears...Its been just over 6 odd months and I am happy again. I saw him briefly on a bus and I was able to say "hey stranger" without a catch in my voice or a sad thought in my head.

 

I wasnt able to talk to him and Im not going to contact him..we have finally been able to keep complete no contact for the past couple of months...so I hope he is alright (in life etc)

 

Anyway...I just needed to get that off my chest...haahaa..

[Kimmikazi]

Congrats! Sounds like it's been a rough road to get where you are..but it goes to show..that time does heal all wounds.

[capricorn85]

Very good!...I cannot wait for the day that I can do that!

[sweetsmile]

Oh, i'm so jalouse at you. Wish I was there now. it's been 2 months and i'm still thinking about him almost all the time. There are periods when i think i'm over him since i date other guys, but then i realize i'm just trying to fool myself. I'm unfortunately not over him yet. how shall i do to make it easier? i do N/C but it's still hard.

[Raven44]

oh my goodness...i was almost the same..but seriously..just keep at NC...it will take a while..like I said..its been over 6 months for me...but you will get through it =D

[smallworld]

Congrats Raven! I remember talking with you one night about your Ex. I'm happy to see you're doing well!

[Raven44]

oh wow..I remember talking to you too...thanks so much gotta love the feeling of moving on...haahaa...

[perseverance_rules]

REMEMBER THIS THOUGH....TIME doesnt heal anything...everyone on these boards say that "time heals all wounds"...well its actually what you did, and HOW you recovered that did it, had nothing to do with just time...it was you who healed you. Remember those things you struggled with all that time, and what you ended up doing through those times to make it better, THATS what heals us....