Oral sex - scary experience!

[keeponsmiling]

I am 15 and in a reallly fantastic relationship with my bf. The other day we performed oral sex on each other, when i did it to him it was great and he loved it ( i have done this before with last bf but i never felt happy about it - this time was great) when he did it to me i wasn't really that turned on but i said i was.. bad idea i know. Anyway, it was really nice and i loved it up until the point where all of my face went numb and my forearms seemed like they were paralysed!! I was so weirded out and it really scared me. I had to ask him to stop because i was just so full of... feelings i was crying, i couldn't help it and i was shaking aswell. He was lovely about it and cuddled me for ages.

 

I'm not sure what im asking for here, just someone who could give some insight, maybe ideas so that i feel more comfortable? I'm just confused and feeling vunerable at the moment. Anyone understand??

[Shadows Light]

You either were about to..or were experiencing an orgasm.

 

The vulnerable open-like a book feeling goes along with it...especially if you've never had and orgasm this way before.

 

I noticed your age... and I can't help but say it. Make sure, make sure, make sure... you are practicing safe sex and use protection.

[VibratingRainbow]

Hey, good to see another kiwi on the forum.. from what you said in your post i would say you were just experiencing a very intense new experience. Orgasm is surposed to be overwhelming. Have you ever had someone go down on you before ? give it another couple of chances it may start to feel really great... if it does not then i think you need to talk to him about it. Keep in mind dont do anything you dont feel ready for.

[Serendipity1607307077]

Yeah, I think you might have had, or been on the verge of, an orgasm! And that's fantastic! A lot of people can't orgasm or sit think hoping they'll have one, and worry about it!

 

Orgasms can sometimes be quite overwhelming for the ladies and sometimes they can be just *that* good that you feel like crying! It's quite normal.. so don't stress!

 

I'm a Kiwi too!

[keeponsmiling]

Thanks guys, not that it helps, he broke up with me last night.. didn't see that coming..

[maynards_razorblade69]

bugger.........

[Tigris]

It definitely sounds like you were on the verge or having an orgasm to me.

 

I'm sorry about your break up.

 

Good luck with your next relationship.

[keeponsmiling]

Yeah, i feel another post coming on.

[Shadows Light]

ohhh honey I'm sorry about the break-up. R U ok???

 

Make sure you go to your gyno and start getting regular check ups since you are now sexually active.

 

Take charge and responsibility for yourself.. get on the pill and use a CONDOM. You carry them if you have to. Just be safe.

[misery12]

Wow, I am sorry to hear that. Feel free to post about any emotions you're feeling.

 

If you don't mind me asking, what were his reasons for breaking up, and if it was because of your behavior during your intimate 'session' than at least you know he wasn't worth it.

[Serendipity1607307077]

Wow that's terrible - I'm so sorry to hear that... if you need to talk please feel free to pm me.